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Well I woke up this morning to make SO coffee for work and cm literally ran out of me like it was water... So I don't know where we are standing ovulation wise but I'll be baby dancing tonight to be sure lol... We've been doing it every second day this month so I'm down with that... I feel a lot more relaxed too and maybe just a little negative like I kind of accepted its not happening for some reason and I dunno why SO came to me last weekend and was like "where are we standing on our baby" so I showed him my apps and he didnt want to have sex till ovulation day to preserve his sperm so we have better chances lol... Explained to him that's not how it works

Thanks so much girls. Just did a target run and bought some frers. On no hold, at 10 dpo it’s pretty dark. As in, can see it from a distance dark, and it came up right away. Yay this is it!!!

Random silly question, but can anyone here actually hold their bladder all night so they have a good FMU?
I try and try but I still have to get up to pee a minimum of two times at night. And that’s on a good night lol

I always wondered if that would throw off early BFP’s?

@photomama that’s really exciting!

@Ana I understand. Im so glad that your DH is getting serious and very engaged about ttc too. That is excellent news.

@agatch how are you?

@Mama no way i can hold lol. I actually pee more at night then during the day. I think it is hereditary because my mum is that way and i think my grandmother was that way as well. You can always try to hold for like 2-3hrs during the day on second morning urine.

Who else is testing this week?

Hey ladies! Seems like many of us are either waiting or onto Oct babies. Good luck everyone!

@photomama Congrats on the !!!

@Lalou3tt3 it's our turn to test tomorrow morning! I must be honest though, I got 2 testers this evening and they whispered to me and I couldn't resist. . At 4 minutes I think I saw a second line. Could be a shadow/indentation line *sigh* I have never squinted so hard at anything like the way I do with these testers!
If it doesn't work out this cycle I think I might just take a break. From BD every 2nd day for the purpose of TTC to symptom spotting, it's overwhelmingly stressful. Feeling so desperate for a . I think I'm going to cry if I get a negative tomorrow. Just thinking about it is so upsetting.

@Photomama

@lalou I already started testing yesterday at 7dpo Both yesterday and today’s 8DPO test BFNs and now I’m so angry with my self. I could be so much happier right now just hoping and believing... My impatience played me

I know that it is still SUPER early but I don’t feel it at all.. I won’t be pregnant this month. I don’t know why but I just feel it!
Here’s my bfn

@lalou yeah he's different this cycle I don't know he never used to ask me when I ovulate he just assumed that we covered the necessary days lol but yeah he's getting more involved and serious about it which is exciting...

@alex maybe feeling the way you do right now is leading to your good news and if you feel negative you'll just have an even happier surprise but yeah I feel the same

CD1 that’s us done now after 12 months of trying

@Anna May be and may be not! We shall see... We are doing our best! It’s not up to us after one point...

@Emma I’m so sorry.. I hope you’ll get through those sad emotions right now and feel better soon! Hugs