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Who wants to get Sept BFP's!! After trying for a few months.
Hi Everyone!
I am trying to muster up any confidence I have left at this point and feeling very discouraged do to our situation. In comparison to some ladies I know I am not as bad but still feeling down from last month and the prior 6 months total as well. Me and my husband have been trying since beg March this year and we are both healthy and young enough to start a family but no luck yet. I have connected with some ladies and it seems everyone of them has gotten a BFP on their first try or so and I would like to hear from those of you who are in my position where you are still trying and its just taking longer. I am looking for some support and stories about your journey so far and what you think of timing and any other methods you have been following. I'm interested to hear your thoughts now that we've all been at it for a while. What do you beleive in and what are you not going to try anymore?
For us, we tried for about 2 months the normal way just with me taking prenatals and not really understanding the timing of the O day and OPK's or anything like that. After that I researched about those things and figured out what timing was better than others and started using OPK's just to pin point my days, however, I have always been on a solid schedule of 26 day cycles and I know when AF comes each month so I'm not sure how much that has really helped me honestly. I also logged my BBT for a month and it felt more stressful than I think it should and it didn't help me really so I stopped that too. Now that we have passed the 6 month mark, I am scheduled to go to the fertility doctor and see what they can tell me or test for incase there is a bigger problem going on. I feel we have timed everything right for at least 3 or 4 months now and nothing ever changes. I even had my DH do a home test that came out positive for being at least at a normal sperm count.
So, what are your thoughts? What's your story? How long have you been TTC and what are going to do from this point on different?
I can't wait to hear from you! I need to know I'm not alone in this!
311 Replies • 11 years ago
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Hey Girls!! Emmy- can't wait to hear tomorrow morning.. what feels icky?
I have been feeling this pregnancy wayyyyy earlier than the last one. I have been exhausted, had a lot of crampy type feelings and also today-backache. I am trying to drink less Coke Zero and more water too but I have to have my Coke Zero in the mornings though!
Happy Almost Friday everyone!
11 years ago
HI ladies!
I don't know if this is pretty common or not but I havne't felt ANY different at all since i found out. I feel like I just found out so much earlier than normal that it just seems like I've been in week3-4 for a week now. ugh! It's taking forever. I don't have an sickness, any cramps, any exhaustion/fatigue, notihing. I've been on prenatals (One-A-Day w/ DHA/Omega3)& B6 100mg for the past 8-9 months straight so now I'm taking an extra 1000mg Calcium supplement as well. I'm not sure if my lack of symptoms have anything with having it all built up in my system for so long now or what.
Feeling really good still! Excited to see progress though! I'm thinking my symptoms are going to hit me like a brick wall pretty soon. Yikes!!
Emmy I hope you get great news tomorrow!! Can't wait to hear!
Adkins - I would definitely see an OBGYN and get your pre-conception visit completed, the dr will order you to do a bunch of blood tests to ensure that you're body doesn't have any infections or viruses and you are cleared for the rubella virus (which I was not immune to so I had to get a booster shot and then wait 30 days to try again) but then at least you know you're cleared and you can ask you OBGYN all the questions you can think of while you're there!
11 years ago • Post starter
6/17/2013- baby girl born 2/24/14
TTC #2 now 
Hey ladies,.... I have been researching more and more symptoms just for the heck of it and idk about anyone else, but i normally always get a lot of thses symptoms right before i start- sore, full bb's, fatigue, sometimes i even feel nausea due to cramping, backaches and sometimes headaches, but that is very rare for me. So how would one decipher? I know that everyone is different, but i do not think that i am goingto be able to take my symptims seriously ya know?
11 years ago
@tasha- I had the cramps and was very fatigued but not really any CM. 
@emmy- keeping fingers crossed for tomorrow morning!
@mrsmullen- I Agee with you. I kept concentrating on all the little symptoms but they were the same month after month. I then felt silly because i was SURE that they meant i was pregnant just to be disappointed. I did feel different this month though with the xtreme fatigue.
11 years ago
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