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Today was supposed to be the day I was going to test. No need - showed up yesterday :( Oh well, another chance to try!

Yoyokim, thanks for letting me know. My seizures are almost daily - and often. I find myself going back and forth over whether or not to get the VNS.

Good luck everyone!

Aww Chekai and Yoyokim Im so sorry, i really thought things were going well this month for you guys, any ideas why it didnt happen, Weve tried all weekend and apart from his sperm count, my old eggs and our age I have no idea why we havent fallen yet, sperm check due on Fri and then if AF shows 6th Dec I know Clomid for next month if test goes well, how was your weekend AKHopeful, we manged to do the deed Fri/Sat/Sun & today and Queena how are you, and loads of to all <3 -x-x-x-

Well, in my case, DH and I only bd once this month and it was on O day around midnight. So, my chances weren't so good anyway. I'm going to try to plan things better this next month.

to everyone!

Well Chekai some say you shouldnt too much cos the sperm count will be lower??? hope you have better luck next month, hope your ok -x-

Pinkster123 and Chekai That is true! My sis DTD once in her whole cycle because her DH was out of town practically the whole month and thats when she got her BFP. Fingers crossed for you!
We managed to DTD Thursday Saturday and Sunday. I should O Wed or Thursday so I am hoping to maintain at least an every other day pattern until then. I LOVE the soft cups though! They go in so easy after DTD and it is completely mess free! It keeps all of the goods in until you take in out and I've been leaving it in for 5-10 hours. Fingers crossed!!!

akhopeful, great tip, i have been thinking about trying them, not expensive either, will give them a go next month if no -x-x-

Thanks everyone for all of the great support here! Well, for now I'm just playing the OTHER waiting game. Waiting till AF goes away and we can start trying once again!

Good luck to everyone!

Hiya Chekai, I find that the toughest waiting game for 2 weeks, then mega hard work Bding then the exciting 2 weeks to find out, I dont mind that bit so much, really trying not to get my hopes up this time and keeping myself busy -x-x-

pinkster, I agree totally. When you look at it, life itself is a waiting game! It's all how you deal with it. Good luck to all!

Oddly enough for me the week of AF is probably the best, emotionally anyways. I get my hopes so high for that BFP in the two week wait and take so many tests towards the end that I, in my heart, know that I am out when I get that BFN on CD 14, even though that tiny part stays hopeful I still know the witch is gonna show her face soon. So by the day of AF I just feel relieved that at least I have my answer and I'm not constantly driving myself nuts waiting and looking for every sign. Now I will say the week of BDing is pretty good too But I am still waiting for that sign that I ovulated and can start the symptom tracking all over again.