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Dragonfly- yes it should be closed after your fertile days are up.
My symptoms also resemble last cycle, the only difference is that this time around is DH and I bedded quite a bit during my fertile days. Time will tell as well as the tests. for both of us.

@Hberry. I did a quick Google and read that it varies from woman to woman and that it could close at 12DPO or after your missed period. I remember with our pregnancy scare back in October that my cervix was closed the day of AF but I never did check before then. Keeping my fingers crossed for both of us.

Hberry and Dragonfly- I’m crossing my fingers for you both!
AFM- today I got my blazing positive OPK- so tomorrow is O day! I’ve been having sore breasts for a couple days, and cramping in my right ovary since last night. I’ve never had either until actual O day before, so I’m hoping this means strong hormones and a strong egg to go with! I BD’d Saturday and Sunday, and I’m hoping to get some in today and tomorrow as well to get good coverage during my fertile days! Hoping and praying for my sweet rainbow baby!
EDD would be February 9 if I concieve!

Kahlan- If I concieve this cycle EDD would be either February 5th or 8th! If I am due on the 8th of February it would be on my mom's birthday! And my daughter's birthday is February 24th! Go get that egg girl!!!

Hberry- my sister in laws birthday is feb 8. My mother in laws is feb 26. Both my daughters were preemies, though, so I would mom likely have a January baby. My youngest daughter and my father in law are January 24, and mine is January 25.

Kahlan- my friend has 2 of her kids born in January, her youngest due in February but had to be c sectioned due to her being breech and cord wrapped around the neck. Her oldest was born January 5th and her youngest January 15th. My daughter loves the thought of sharing a birthday month with a new baby sibling. (She's really hinting at wanting a sister). I lost 3 grandparents in February but I also think my late dad had a big role in my daughter and her birthday being February and if I concieve and it is a girl and she comes in February I will know my dad had a role in it.

@Hberry. My daughter too wants a baby sister. Her birthday is March 29 and my son is on October 19; same day as my brother. I hope you get your BFP as I too believe it is a sign from above.

AFM. 10DPO and temp is hovering at 98.0. Didn't get much sleep last night and my eyes are pretty sore today with a slight headache. I'd love to test but so do not want to see a blank screen on my test. AF is due this weekend and I'm praying she stays away.

@dragonfly we are synced up this cycle lol. AF is due for me this weekend (sucks b/c its a holiday! lol) and according to my ovia app, I can test tomorrow. I usually just wait for AF to show because in the early months of ttc (after taking out my IUD) my PMS symptoms were not the same as what they were before my IUD. So there was like 2 or 3 months where I thought I was pregnant and I wasn't. I bought the cheapies off amazon a while ago and I still have like a whole box. Idk... I might test, i might not.

AFM I am 10dpo today, AF is due this weekend and have not tested yet. Not sure if I will. Feeling a little bloated/gassy and some acne but that is about it. I have really tried to clean up my diet this month and have been drinking celery juice in the morning (about 1 cup) and as long as I'm doing everything else I'm supposed to be doing (eating right, working out, washing my face lol) it seems to work pretty well. I'm hoping hospitals open back up for those of us that scheduled fertility appointments. We have been trying for 1 year now.

Dragonfly- I too feel my dad had a role. Im still having dreams of delivering twin girls-- last night they were identical twin girls. Each one named after each of my late grandmas. Funny thing is, I have had the same twin dream with each one of my 4 pregnancies.

We've been on real rollercoaster. So when my bleeding started yesterday morning it was just gushing out from me, it was really awful. We went to womens ER in bigger city, but the registartion lady said other women have been waiting from 7 in the morning with bleeding (it was 10) and she will not register me. We went back home devastated and disappointed, I even wouldn't have went there because we were sure everything is over, but thr ER nurse told me to get it documented. Anyway later I called to small hospital in our city and asked advice, they were mad about other ER situation and that they wouldn't register me to check up on me, especially because bleeding was so heavy they were really worried about me. The dr who could've had chance to do ultrasound needed to go to clinic in bigger city and she said she will get me checked or I can go in today near our home hospital, because I didn't thinked there will be any different and I was really drained emotionally and psyhically I decided to go in today. We cried yesterday for whole day with husband and just cuddled and talked about how much we love our little onr wherever she/he is. Anyway, today when I went in, the doctor said baby is still there and heart was beating strong. Since my last visit to ER what was 4 days ago, I've gotten huge hematom in my uterus (wasn't viable 4 days ago in better ultrasound machine, so idk how it came there in such a short time but they never know) , the hematom is provably what is bleeding. She prescribed me duphaston and all lifestyle precautions what we we're following before anyway. There is no guarantee ofc, because hematoms can be really dangerous to little one, but for us that he/she is still here is a huge miracle. So we take one day at a time and pray and hope for best.

We found out my blood is rh negative and husband blood is rh positive, but they don't do anything about it and will just start taking my blood more often. And when I went to ER 4 days ago they said It looks like I might have saddle uterus or uterus with the wall in the middle. So yeah, that's that. I'll have my next appointment on next friday to see is baby growing and what is that hematom up to.

Gosh girls, I pray for all of you to get BFP and have successful and easy going pregnancies sorry for being so quiet here, I've been reading for all that time and cheering for you all, but I was so anxious to write...I'm a sponge head