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Mother’s Day hit me hard today.... everyone’s is posting their babies, their families and pregnant friends their bellies... it’s so devastating... I cried so much today. I’ll never forget last year a lady came to me and told me “happy Mother’s Day, do you celebrate? Are you a mommy?” And I was like smiling “no, I am not a mommy” and she went like “oh it’s ok honey... at least you have dance”... I’ll never forget how she hurt me. It was like she saw an old woman with no chance to have a baby anymore.. oh boy.. Mother’s Day is so hard....

I saw this picture earlier, just want to share with you guys. Mother’s Day have a bittersweet taste for me this time. Happy Mother’s Day everyone!

@alexplpl I’m sorry that you had to listen this kind of comments.

Quick update, I’ll get hysteroscopy done next Tuesday. My doctor said that I need to remove an intrauterine adhesion. So I believe I’m out this cycle. I’m CD 07 but I don’t know if this procedure allows you to have sex right away or if I’ll need to wait like 02 weeks or so.

Wishing baby dust to all of us.

Another negative test today. Still no AF but who knows when she will rear her ugly head.

Luana Hopefully you’ll be able to bd after your procedure! I wish I could help but I don’t know anything about it!

Punk this must be so frustrating for you! Let’s hope a beautiful surprise will come out of this!

Arm I’m 9dpo and really nothing out of the ordinary. I have everything PMS related and I am expecting Af on Saturday!

Woke up with back pain today and I'm freezing cold and had mild cramps this morning. Still playing hurry up and wait. Cervix is still the queen of medium. Just medium everything...

@Alex. I hope this is it for you.

@Punk. Hang in there. Hope you get your BFP in the next couple days.

AFM. Yesterday I reached my all time low and still feeling the same today. My temp went up today so thinking I ovulated during the night. Our anniversary was alright but Mother's Day not so good. After hearing what my husband told me, it made me take a second look at trying for a third and to not have sex. My thoughts and feelings are all over the place. I do not want to bring a baby in this world knowing what his/her daddy told their mother and how it made her feel. Not to mention that we lost a dear friend of ours to MS. Sad day for me. I will do my best to keep everyone updated and check on everyone's journies.

Edit to add: what makes matters complicated. My order finally came in today.

Pretty sure I'm out. Started spotting like I normally do now when my period is starting. Rusty brown and will most likely increase.

Dragonfly I’m so sorry love! Seems like everything is piled up for you. Take a deep breath and seek some time for yourself just to detach from what stresses you out! Sending positive vibes your way and a hug

Punk Oh no! So sorry girl! Make sure to pamper yourself and hopefully in a few days you’ll be feeling much better! Here’s to a new cycle

AFM It’s currently 6:30am and I got up at 5:30am. I woke up and couldn’t get back to sleep.. feeling so anxious. I’m 10dpo and I’m pretty sure I’m out. I don’t feel anything different and I’m actually having all pms symptoms. I just want to get pregnant...

Yesterday I was watching the YouTuber I was talking about last week and on her 4th episode of her fertility journey and after 2 failed IUIs she got pregnant on her first IVF. I cried so much.. I felt her joy in my soul and I couldn’t wish about anything else at this point than to just feel like this for once in my life...

@Punk. Let's pray that the spotting turns to dark brown and then you get your BFP a few days later. If AF shows her ugly head, then I wonder that you may have a short leuteal phase and may need to take Maca to regulate or progesterone cream. I had to with my last pregnancy as I never spotted before AF.

@Alex. I didn't have any symptoms with my first pregnancy except for the obvious cramping the day of/after AF was supposed to show. Don't count yourself out yet. With regards to signs showing up when you ask. I believe in that too. I used to see the First Response commercials on TV and I'd get sad wishing it was me. Then I see all the cute baby commercials and my heart melts with joy looking at how cute they look.

AFM. Hubby and i talked a little bit last night and he even said, I know I don't treat you very well. So it was nice that he acknowleged it. We managed to BD last night and it wasn't in the cards for us. My app says that my ovulation is Monday and CTP says it was on May 8. If yesterday was ovulation per say, would we still be able to catch the egg?

Dragonfly- If yesterday was O day- you have a fair chance still with BDing last night. You could still have a chance with today, too