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BFN yesterday and this morning. I'm 12 DPO today. No obvious signs or symptoms of pregnancy or AF, and I had my temp drop a little this morning. AF is due to arrive tomorrow (13 DPO), and I'm trying to tell myself I'm not out until she shows her face. However, I think I'm out unless tomorrow's temp rises back up. We BD the day before ovulation, so my Hope's are a wee bit crushed right now.

Happy New Year everyone! Wishing you all the blessings a heart can know.

Sorry to all the ladies with AF. New year new beginnings.

@Lalou3tt3 not much updates on my part. I'm not tracking basal body temp nor OPK anymore (except when I see egg white cm). We BD everyday or every 2nd day. On CD22 & 3DPO. All the charting was too stressful and disappointing when I don't see the result I want. I find it less stressful on both of us when we agreed to make sure to BD at least every 2nd. We got to BD 5x during the fertile period this cycle. I'm better at assessing my CM. Last cycle, I noticed a blob of egg white CM but this cycle it was barely noticeable. Took OPK to double check it's positive for ovulation. Hope this help anyone who's stressed about charting.

JNMD08 there’s still hope x

@lalou I'm just hanging out. 6dpo so I'm going to wait a while to test again. I also used my last FRER and don't feel like buying any more so I might not see anything until AF is supposed to be here.

I agree that you might have just ovulated too. Hopefully your timing is still good!

Happy New Year ladies! I wish everyone of you a healthy and happy 2019 baby!

So I took an opk today....even though I said I wouldn't. I just had a feeling that I was gonna o and it was a blazing positive....so here's to hoping we caught it!
That also puts my o back on cd13/14 which is what it always was before my chemical loss.... so I think that's a good sign. My o has slowly been inching back for the past few months so we if we are back to pre loss numbers; I think that's pretty good!

@agatch thank you
@Espence that is excellent news. For sure you caught it.
@Kait only few more days til you test though right? When is AF due? I personally would rather wait too. Like we said earlier in the forum seeing AF is less hurtful then BFN for me at least. Because it confirms that I won half the battle which is ovulating. How is the weather in the beginning of this new year for y all? I live in the SE of the States and it has been a bit warmer but they are announcing lots of rain for the next 4-5days. ot fun.

Ladies please pray for me. My temp dropped to coverline this morning and my lines are not getting any darker. I have no symptoms of pregnancy or AF. 18 DPO today. I'm starting to feel like I might be out this month.

CD 32 (13 DPO) BFN this morning. AF should be here today, or tomorrow at the latest. Haven't had any symptoms that she's even around.

@lalou AF is due Monday 1/7. My LP is normally only 11 days so I'm wondering if I would even get a positive by then with the less sensitive tests. I'm also curious to see if the b complex I have been taking has any effect on my LP, my temps have been shifting differently after O.