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@itsanna sorry i didnt see your reply... great to see that you are feeling positive!!

Its Thursday morning with me in New Zealand so I'm giving myself another 24 hours till i test... I feel really positive this month but I am just so scared of a BPN!!

@SMACx0 - i totally agree with you, AF is WAY less depressing than a BFN (although it makes zero sense)... I havent taken a test in about 6 months as I just couldnt take seeing the stark white anymore!

@K8mcm88 Right?!?? It makes zero sense but its been keeping me sane. I honestly think it's because even after the negative there is this tiny bit of hope that maybe my levels aren't high enough or maybe it's a faulty test and then when I get my period its a double slap in the face lol oh well.

Welp ladies I started cramping pretty sure AF will be here later on tonight or tomorrow morning. Oh well. Good luck and best wishes to all of you!!

Hi, ladies decided to join this forum . I am 4dpo I believe , I am on like CD 68 after a MMC in October at 10 weeks, it’s been a long cycle . Hoping to test Christmas . Anybody else? Is my chart look good?

@smac usually I bankrupt myself but I'm doing good this cycle not having tested yet...

@babytears I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through something similar and it took my body awhile to get back on track too. It does look like your temp finally jumped up. Did you have a breakthrough bleed that you counted as CD1?

I’m 8 dpo and can’t tell if I have line eyes or a vvvvf bfp?

@lindsay I see it

Yes had break through bleeding

Hi ladies I'm back. I see so many friends from August Baby post. Sorry ladies, hope this is our month. Been super quiet since AF visited. It was recently my wedding anniversary so we had a mini getaway. Hopefully it helps with the stress lately and give a good cycle this month. I'm all over the chart from 28-77 days. I'm currently on CD9....ovulation date=anonymous. I'm probably not going to track ovulation this cycle and stick to BD every 2nd day until AF show or test after CD40.

@itsanna you asked about birthing plans the other day. When I gave birth back in Jan of this year, my plan was natural birth but ended up in an emergency c-section. It was very traumatic and the healing process is no fun. Dr also recommended min 18 months apart between birth. Had it been natural birth we would have been ok to try again sooner without the risk of a rupture uterus. It's difficult waiting because I felt robbed of my 1st time being a mom. I've only given birth once but I won't get c-section if I didn't have to next time. Finger crossed I'd be ok for a VBAC. I don't mind the scar because it is a reminder I fought to safe my son. However, the phantom itch on my incision (nerve damages???) keeps me up at night. ???? Also, it's not recommended to have more than 2 or 3 c-section (can't remember). Probably not ideal for anyone looking to have a big family. Sometimes it's necessary to have a c-section. I have nothing against c-section, you do you ladies.