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Hi ladies, thank you for yur answers. I feel much better now knowing that Im not the only one with PMS changes after having a miscarriage.
Im so sorry for all the ladies that are getting AF, I´m still hopefull many of the girls on the board get their Christimas miracles soon.

@Alexplpl I know the feeling of thinking your body is not capable of getting pregnant or sustaining a pregnancy, but try not to focus on those thoughts, they only cause you harm and help for nothing. A chemical pregnancy can happen anytime after implantation occures, so yes you could have a chemical at 10dpo if you implanted earlier than that. Usually a chemical pregnancy is followed by the quick start of AF, so if you are still waiting for AF to come, I would try and stay positive.

@itsAna, thank you for welcoming me in your board. I think I also see a faint line on your pg test. I would try to wait it out a little before taking the next test, specially if you want to use the digital one you bought.

@alex thanks girl we'll see what happens... Babe I totally get it like this weekend someone asked me if we haven't gone for fertility testing yet but i dont feel the need to because we got pregnant before so even if it didnt last i know i can get pregnant so I'd want the same I'd rather deal with a chemical than a negative... But hopefully your line darkens !!

@vs I'm only planning on testing Sunday or Monday again but I'm not gonna take the digi if I dont get a positive on one of the other tests... I hate wasting digitals like 2 or 3 month ago I got a false positive on a pharmacy digi so I was excited to use my CB digi that came back negative and I was so disgusted that I wasted it lol so if I dont get lines on other tests I refuse to use my digi

Thank you @Vs ! I don’t have any signs of AF yet. I only had this morning (weirdly) ewcm which I read somewhere it’s maybe an indication of AF coming due to estrogen rising (?) I don’t really know.. I hope everything goes well for you too!

@anna I really hope you get that positive this month! You really deserve it!!!! As for me unfortunately I’m not having any lines anymore so I can wait for them to darken. I’m getting some shadows but at this point I’m convinced that I’m dealing with a very faulty batch of tests
Tonight I’m having another event at work. Time for a couple of drinks for me! Cheers

@anna well if that’s the case I’m seeing my self with a drinking problem in the future lmao Sometimes I know this might sound overdramatic but I believe it’s never gonna really happen fore me. It’s been more than way too long for me... Anyways! I don’t feel really sad atm.. I’m just very unamused and in a blah mood! Poor hubby today lol

I think I see a line as well! Good luck!!

Well 3rd difference type of test fmu at 10 dpo, I think I can rule out evaps!

@anna well. how to explain this. is a long story. If you feel to read it here it is. I’ll be as fast as I can!
It’s been very difficult for me to convince my hubby to take pregnacare vitamins this month. He’s more in the “we’re not going to go crazy over this.. It will happen on its own time”. He doesn’t really understands how all this works and tbh he doesn’t really want to listen cuz his father (who lives in a different country and visits once per year) is a gynecologist and when my hubby was a kid, only things he listened in his house was about health issues, fertility problems, surgeries and as he describes it “ew conversations with patients” on the phone. So now when I try to talk to him about ovulation for example or in general when he happens to listen health conversations, he simply turn around and refuses to listen.
When I first talked to my doctor one year ago about my concerns and that I’m not preventing pregnancy for 8 years he said we should both get checked. He gave me my list of things I should check and for my hubby was only one check. I did everything... I still get blood work every month, I checked my tubes which is an extremely unpleasant examination and I tried to educate my self. He still refuses to check himself saying that he’s totally fine and that his father will help us. He talked to his father about this once and I don’t think he ever talked to him about it again. I cannot personally talk to his father about it to ask for help because he doesn’t speak English or my language.. It’s a roller coaster situation...
So doctor cannot give me/us medication when he doesn’t really know what to treat...
Hubbys father is visiting end of January and I really really hope we’ll find a way to talk about this and maybe he can help us.....
Sorry this was long

@alex I'm sorry babe the situation seems complicated and I understand your concerns regarding hubby not wanting to get checked/do fertility treatments... Maybe like you said when his dad is there you guys can maybe figure out a way to talk to him because I have a feeling that he'd take it more seriously if it came from his father... Hopefully that helps the situation

@Lindsay yay!!! I see that line. Congrats and prayers for it getting darker!!!
@Alex sorry your situation is so complicated. I hope your prayers are answered soon. Lots of baby dust to you!!

12dpo and I have a very very faint line. Today is DH’s bday so I think this is a pretty good present. Should it stick, due date is my son’s bday, so that is a little annoying.