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@anna I totally understand how much it can truly bring you down. Literally all the ladies at work keep announcing their pregnancies and I'm just waiting on a line that hasn't come. Don't mean to sound whiny but its not fair. 7-8dpo today , fingers crossed , I haven't tested anymore my period is still 5-7days away. My cycle is usually 29 days or so.

@anna, I completely feel the same way. its unfair, ALL of it. You know what I woke with the same blah mentality. When I got married two years ago I thought ok we are going to get pregnant right away and its going to be great. 2 years later still nothing, now I have a hot date with an ultrasound wand 2x a month. and I cant help but think that my body is failing me. I look at my husbands cousins and think how can you pop kid after kid out and not appreciate them.
@ Espence when are you going to test? I will be doing a blood test on Tuesday.
@nicdunc79 I fell you girl. I hate all the announcements of instagram of people. I honestly pray and wish we could all get a BFP and have the best xmas gift for our hubbys.

if this month doesn't work the dr wants me to have the "dye'"test. I dont know if anyone has had it done but its basically someone inserting dye saline (i think) in too your uterus and ovaries to make sure your ovary tubes are clear from any blockage. so in other words they want to check my pipes for any blockages.
I heard its painful, and I would have to go on birthcontrol. I dont want that any of that! I want my BFP!!!

I have a question.... Does everyone experience implantation bleeding?
if so what dpo does it happen?

I tested today at 7dpo, I know silly but I had to get my POAS fix lol... Got a negative but I'm feeling more optimistic today than yesterday. Fingers crossed for the next test. Bought 3 dollar store cheapies so I'll probably test again Sunday or Monday just depends if I get the urge to test again! Lol

@Deecar05 I didn't have any with my son.

Dee I'm not sure when I'm going to test. Or even if I will. I just dont have the want to at all.

@espence I get it, there are moments in the day where I dont even think about it.

You what annoys me? My mom wants to go on a trip to Greece in September, but doesn't have anyone to room with. And I want to go, but I keep thinking hey I might be due in September and it's like I have to wait to see if I get pregnant. I love travelling so much and my mom isn't getting any younger. So now I'm torn and sad because I want both and there's a part of me that would almost just push a baby off further. I hate that these things always come at the same time. Why didn't a trip like this come up when we weren't trying? I feel like I'm not going to be pregnant in the next couple of months anyway. I'm sure this sounds like such an awful problem to have lol I just don't get many opportunities to do fun things with my family. End ramble.

I feel y all ladies. We are all in this together. Soooo hard but oh so worth it!!