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@Gamer congrats! Definitely positive!

@Shay I think I’m out as well.
FF moved my crosshairs today to CD17 as O which shifts my whole cycle by three days. That puts me at only 12 dpo. I didn’t even BD around that time, so if that really was O for me, then this isn’t my month. My temp went up this morning so I took another test. BFN. I’m wondering if my temps are being affected, because I’m sick. I’ve had a really bad sore throat for two days now.

@Gamer congrats that's a BFP.

@Shay and momma I was hoping this was your cycle. Until she shows you still have a chance.

@HDkelly I hope you catch the eggie.

Welcome to the new one who has joined sorry cant remember your name I have been reading.

@lissa I'm glad things are progressing well and I have full confidence your next scan will show things are as well.

I'm on my way home from our vacation. This month is going to be a weird month since I am not going to be taking Clomid. I'm going to see how my body reacts temp and RHR wise. I am also going to focus on working out and losing weight this cycle. After walking 8 miles each day, I am determined to keep up my body working like it did this past week on vacation. CD 4 and AF is starting to slow down. My fiance order the liquid form of AVena Sativa the pill form hasn't help. This is to help with his ED issues since his clomid hasnt helped with that but has raised his testosterone levels. My mom swears by it, my sis, and her brother in law. So cant hurt to try. At this point I have tried so many different things why not.

Momma that’s a bummer that FF moves your crosshairs! Maybe it wrong. And maybe your actually where you thought you were.
AFM I’m feeling much better about my lines now got a nice dark one this morning they seem to be getting darker and darker and no spotting or bleeding. Feeling pretty good about this time around. I should here back on Monday about my beta to see where my levels are at. Then they’ll either want to do another beta or they’ll just schedule an early ultrasound. I should have my first ultrasound at the end of this month which I’m pretty excited about. Feeling very hopeful.
I’m going to stick around if you guys don’t mind. I wanna keep track of everyone and see how things are going on your journeys

Momma I am sorry you think you are out too. I am still hopeful for you!!

Bug I am glad vacation was something you needed. Things will workout and you will get there.

Mama I am so happy for you. Those lines look amazing!!!

AFM: I decided that I need to stick with my oral temps since those are the ones I started with. By sticking with them though, I no longer have an O day. Looks like my temps are just fluctuating wherever they want. This seems more likely for me since I haven’t O’ed two months in a row for as long as I can remember. So whenever af shows up I will start temping vaginally for more consistent temps. I will be setting up an appointment with my doctor soon to see what is going on.

Good luck ladies!! I hope the best for all of you. Looks like I am just waiting around another month.

@mama I have a really good feeling about this one for you! Can’t wait to follow your progress!

My tender BB’s have gone away, so I think FF moving my crosshairs was correct. They usually stop hurting on 13dpo, so AF should be arriving tomorrow.

I sure was hoping for everyone to have their BFPs this time.

@shay, I am sorry things are wonky stjll, I totally would get to a doctor. I actually went before my one year mark but I also was 35 so I guess they felt like it was okay to start everything early, who knows. Yesterday, I was reading an article that stated after 35 your chances are less each month to get pregnant. I really wish I had found someone sooner and was happily married in my early 20s instead of my mid30s. Then I read about the 73 year old woman in India that had twins after IVF her and her husband of 80 have been married since 1962 but could never conceive naturally. They found a doctor who sid he would do one IVF. It worked. So, I'm just bless I will not be that old because if we dont have kids by my 41st birthday I might not even have them.

@momma, how are you this morning?

@mama we would love for you to stick around and keep up with us.

Thanks everyone! I’m feeling very hopeful about this time around also. I’ve been getting very nauseous already which I know sounds crazy since morning sickness doesn’t usually kick in till a little later but man on man I feel it already. I’m also very tired. But I haven’t been sleeping all the well either.
Momma I was really hoping you’d get your BFP this month!
Bug I am definitely going to stick around and keep up with you guys. I also like having someone to tell about my stuff because we aren’t telling anyone for a while yet because of our last lose at 10weeks with our missed miscarriage. So having someone to share in my excitement is always a good thing.

Momma I am sorry AF seems to be showing up.

Bug I totally get it. I figured I would already have two little ones by this point. I didn’t meet my husband till my mid twenties and we waited a few years to get married and a year after getting married before we even started trying. Now I am nearing that 30 mark and know that it gets harder once you hit it. Ugh. But we still have hope!!!

Mama I am glad you will still be around as well. Definitely nice to have someone to talk to. Whenever we do finally get pregnant, we don’t plan on telling anyone except my in-laws because we live with them right now, until we are starting the second trimester just to be safe. You got this girl!!

AFM: I just don’t know what to think anymore. I am planning on making an appointment with my doctor after AF shows. But man my temps keep screwing with me!! By oral temps everything is pretty normal went up some but no big deal. Though I did sleep with my mouth open and it still went up. Been continuing with vaginal temps just so I can get the hang of it for next cycle. Well it skyrocketed!! Like a whole half degree!! I just don’t know what to think or do. FF has no O for me with oral temps, yet my other app has O at a later time with vaginal temps. It is putting me only at 7dpo. If that is the case we did bd in the fertile window just not much. I am so tired of guessing!!! I wish my body would make up its mind. I was so ready for AF to start, had my cramping and tender chest but nothing. No spotting even. And now my temp jumps?!? Guess time will tell and once AF shows I will set up an appointment.

Good luck ladies!!! I am rooting for you!!

@mama I’m calling it now! You’re having a girl. Lol.
@bug and shay So sorry your bodies are being confusing and not giving you any answers. I hope something happens for you soon.
AFM: started spotting right before bed last night and AF arrived first thing this morning. Right on time. So FF was correct in moving my crosshairs. I think my high temps were due to a sinus infection. I had a low grade fever on and off all weekend. But my temp dropped significantly this morning, so I knew AF was here.