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@Momma, I think I did too. So hopefully we caught our window.

Bug I’m very sorry to hear about your troubles. I’d be frustrated too but also agree with the rest of the ladies that getting mad at him won’t help anything. That’s why you have all of us to vent and blow off steam. Congrats on finding a venue!
Momma I feel your frustration on the lingering AF. I’m currently on day 8 it’s just brown spotting but super annoying. Usually it ends on CD7

@Colie I wonder why they are lingering so much this month? Mine is dark brown spotting as well, but enough to need a liner. So tired of it. I’m usually completely done by CD5. I told my SO this morning that he’s getting it tonight whether he wants it or not. I’ve been so bitchy from lack of sex. We’ve just been so busy and then AF showed.

Momma mine finally ended and hubs and I started BDing. How are you doing? Were you able to BD last night?

Cycle day 14 here for me. FF has me starting my fertile window as of today so hopefully that's correct. Temps are still dropping even lower so hopefully they spike back up pretty soon so I know when I O.
Momma that's how my cycle was this month. Super annoying. But I hope you got to BD anyway.

im hoping for a may baby too because July ill be getting married. tracking bbt and not fertility drug might go buy some lubricant. because ive notice no matter how much water I drink I don't have enough cm.

Thank you ladies! It's so hard but so grateful to have you all. The wild oats didnt make it to the house before we had to leave but he was able to BD! Thanks goodness. I forgot my thermometer so this morning I didnt get to check my temp. I think I will O on Monday, if I O on CD 15 like I did last cycle.

Welcome agamerswife!! Other bride in the group. Yay!

Hey ladies!!

@bug I am sorry that you guys are struggling. It will get better just be patient. Congrats on finding the venue though!!!

Fingers crossed for everyone else!!! We are just bding and waiting to see what happens. I never O the same time so just going to keep bding at least every other day until I confirm O or AF starts.

Good luck!!

Ladies I am struggling today. I just found out that one of my good friends is pregnant again!! They already have three kiddos and she was even on the Copper IUD. They were not trying at all!! She just happened to get pregnant and of course she is very healthy. They are due in January with another little boy.

I am just so heartbroken that she felt she couldn’t say anything to me since she knows we have been trying for so long. Plus I had to find out through Facebook. I just wish it would happen for me too. I am happy for them but still sad that it just hasn’t happened for us yet. Just feeling so down and discouraged already. Not even made it to O and I just feel out of it for the month.

Sorry for the venting but just needed to tell someone else who understands.

@Shay sorry your friend thought you weren’t strong enough to hear her good news. Some people just don’t know how to approach situations like this without feeling like they are being insensitive.
@Gamer Welcome! Congrats on your upcoming wedding. Sounds exciting! Baby dust to you!
I’m CD9 today, so I’ll start temping tomorrow and temp for a week to see if I can confirm O. Our kitchen remodel has not been going well. It’s been one roadblock after another. Looks like it is going to take at least another week. My work week is so busy as well as back to school things to do for the kids. I’m exhausted just thinking about tomorrow being Monday.