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Beaut1ful, I am so sorry for your loss. I've had bleeding and have no idea if I am still pregnant or not. Like Hope said, we can't know what this feels like for you as we are all different. I hope you can come to terms with what happened in time and move onto creating that rainbow baby. Take your time and look after yourself.

@Moonbaby15. How are you feeling? I hope you are having some time to rest and I hope the spotting has stopped for you

As for me. My thoughts and emotions have been up and down all day today. I have been super moody and annoyed today. Must be hormones as I'm not really annoyed easily. I even told my hubby that I am not sure what this pregnancy going to do. I was so calm and relaxed the whole time and even in labour I was calm. Should be interesting on what this pregnancy will do. Sadly, I'm so afraid that something bad will happen that I have to keep telling myself that my baby is fine and that there is nothing for me to worry about. Do you think once I hear the heartbeat I will be fine or still thinking the what ifs. I'm sorry, my emotions are high. Was at work on Friday and was on break with my gf and we walked the hallways in the hospital. They called code blue in the renal unit and were walking when the code blue team was running past us and I got teary eyed thinking about the patient and hoping he/she is okay. Not sure how to manage my emotions.

Not sure what to think of my test this am (I’m 9dpo and used FMU w/FRER). I posted it on my
Page if anyone wants to take a look and give a guess. I see a faint second line but not sure if I just want it so bad that I have line eyes

@BB2018. I saw the test and I thought I saw something. I would test again in the morning.

Good morning ladies. How is everyone feeling today? Been feeling pretty worn out and tired the last couple days. Yesterday wasn't a very good day either. Hubby wasn' t being to nice to me so we didn't talk much throughout the day and then to top it off my daughter decided to kick me in the face missing the centre of my eye while I was changing her diaper. Hoping today will be a better day. Have a doctor's appointment with the gyne and will give her all my concerns in the hopes of a solution. Anyone close to testing soon?

Morning! I’m on a work trip this week so I will not be on much during the daytime but will still be here! I think I sorted out when I O’d so i’m pretty sure today i’m 3 DPO. I probably won’t test until 12DPO unless I have some obvious symptoms. We BD on O day and the day after so I feel better now that I know we BD on O day. Hopefully that is enough! I’ve been thinking that we might not have swimmers that live long and we haven’t managed to BD on O day for a few cycles now so maybe this will give us that BFP we are hoping for!

@Dragonfly - I hope you have a better day today hun.

@FlamingoGirl13. Thank you. I am still feeling pretty down and out and my eye is still sore. Guess it doesn't help when a person bottles things up as it does more harm then good. Also, not feeling the greatest either and very tired. I hope you were able to catch the egg and get your BFP this cycle. Off to my doctor's appointment.

Awww dragonfly - so sorry about the kick to the face... hope you didn't get hurt! Idk why hubby wasn't nice, but maybe plan something for the two of you to do? I know when I was pregnant last time, I concentrated SO MUCH on my pregnancy that I kinda left out the relationship/us stuff and everything became about me and the baby and how I was feeling tired, bloated, etc. and that's obv not attractive or fun for a man to listen to haha. If you ask me, men are needy, way more needy than women LOL and they also like to know that they are needed/wanted... just my two cents. I feel like when you do good for others, it comes back to you in positive ways too.

AFM - I'm 10dpo today. Took another FRER - I see a slight 2nd line, but I don't see pink in it - evap? idk... the waiting game is NOT fun! I felt cramps for sure on Saturday night for about 1-2 hours and then felt them late last night for about 20-30 min and I'm feeling them now a little... I don't think they're AF cramps, I've always been exactly 26 day cycle, BUT I'm truly not sure when AF started last time - I bled some on 2/1, then nothing on 2/2 or 2/3, then full blown started bleeding on 2/4, so I'm counting 2/4 as my first CD... what do you all think I should count CD1 as? Anywho - I'm hoping these faint second lines I see start to show up pink tomorrow! I'm trying to stay positive and I know I"m not out yet :)

Who else will be testing today/tomorrow/wednesday??? Hope to see lots of BFP's up in here!!!

@BB2018. Thank you for your kind words. It really does mean a lot to me.

Just got back from the doctor's office and she pretty much gave me shit (sorry) for taking progesterone cream without any rhyme or reason and pretty much told me to stop taking it but left that up to me. She had no clue what I was talking about and made the visit very nerve wracking. I am so emotional with everything that I just want to go home. Can't seem to focus on the job at hand and I need to relax for the baby's sake and for me I guess.

Awww @dragonfly23 - I'm so sorry she didn't make you feel comforted. What do you feel is right to do with progesterone? I say get 2nd opinion or follow your gut instinct. I swear we know more about our bodies than the drs do sometimes!

OMG OMG OMG - my boobs started to hurt this am at work and I'm crazy LOL, so I went to CVS to get more FRER tests and ...it came back BFP!!! It's DEF there, no line eyes! I'm in SHOCK! I'm shaking I'm so nervous and excited! I haven't even told my bf yet... omg!

Do you see it?!