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@hope4rainbowbaby. Thank you hun about the cramping. It worries me that AF is going to show up even though the tech lady said that my cervix is tightly closed but it still worries me. Hope your ultrasound goes well on the 27th. Keep us posted.

Hey ladies not sure what’s going on nobody can tell me if I’m having a MC or not. Got back from ER and they said levels are 450 and ultrasound is saying 2-3weeks as they can’t see a sac nor free fluid. Since it’s still early. I’m soooo emotional ..go back to dr on Friday for more blood work. I’m crying my eyes out and there are no answers!!!! I am bleeding which all they say is normal in early pregnancy but they can’t rule out eptopic pregnancy just a waiting game

@Beaut1ful38. Been thinking about you all morning and wondering how the appointment went. Oh my god, that's not good at all. Is it still red or a mix? There's no clots right? I know this may sound crazy but have you tried poas to see what the line is at? I really hope it isn't a MC and I think with ectopic you would have a lot of pain in the stomach. Did they book you in for another ultrasound?

@Beaut1ful38 I'm praying so hard for you and sending you a big virtual hug. I just read through this entire thread and feel like I got to know each of you a little bit xoxo. Try your best to stay calm, the baby feels everything you feel. Maybe try to do something that calms you? Take a bath, watch tv, go for little walk, read a book?

@Beaut1ful38 - My heart is aching for you. I hope and pray the bleeding stops and that you get answers on Friday. I hope this little bean holds on and sticks tight. I'll be thinking of you and your lo tonight. Please be good to yourself and do what you need to do relax and stay calm. We are always here for you.

Thank you ladies. Has been emotional roller coaster for DH and I.
Dragonfly- oh yes I took a test when I got home and 2 solid lines came up. Helped calm me down but since levels are 450 I kind of knew lines would.
BB2018/ thank you for the viral hug. Dr put me in bed rest till Friday so Movie’s it is and praying too.
FlamingoGirl- thank you for the support as well. I’m such a mess crying now writing this. DH and I just held each other and cried. Which he is wanting answers too so we can move on either way. He has been sooo supportive even missed work to be here.
I did forget to mention they also found 1 fibroid in my uterus which they said isn’t nothing to concerned about but google freaked me out!! Trying to put that back behind me. Dr should be looking at everything from ER to compare her thoughts and give me answers as I have been calling them all day today. The vaginal ultrasound did more bleeding which I was not happy about.. I asked the tech was it going to harm it more she said no when done was bleeding dark red and had small black looking things not clots though. So that freaked me out even more.

@Beaut1ful38 - Glad to hear you are on bed rest. I hope that helps everything calm down. Sorry the vaginal unltrasound caused more bleeding... that’s upsetting. Will be thinking of you tonight.

@Beaut1ful38: sending you lots of good vibes and warm thoughts to you and to your DH and to your LO! Hang in there, get some rest and try to calm down (I know this part must be the hardest thing to do). I also have fibroid, but I was told it's not a big deal. I'm 17 weeks 2 days pregnant now and 2 doctors told me about the fibroid I have. It is just something that a lot of women can develop especially during pregnancy with all the hormonal changes. They just always let know about those kind of things and make notes so they are aware of it. So if your doctor already saw it and told you that it is not concerning, it is not something to worry about.

Also, they often told me that there might be more bleeding after having an ultrasound in general. There's just more blood vessels there so when one is being checked there, it can often lead to some bleeding.

I'm so sorry that you're experiencing this emotional rollercoaster... But it's good you're under medical care, getting things checked and that you're getting some bed rest. Try to take it easy: for you and for your baby and for your husband who sounds like such a loving, caring, devoted man!

Lots of big virtual hugs and positive energy your way! I hope you'll hear some GOOD news soon and that everything will calm down!

Good Morning Ladies!

@ Beaut1ful38 - I hope you are getting that bed rest prescribed and that you can go to the ultrasound sound tomorrow feeling much better. I've been thinking of you and sending positive healthy vibes your way.

Oh Beaut1ful, I’m so sorry you’re going through this! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Just wanted to check in you with ladies. Waiting for ovulation, negative (but not super light either) smiley on my clearbkue opk. Will prob ovulate mon tues or wednesday according to the fertility friend and this app. Cervix is getting softer and more open. Didn’t want to miss this month’s egg in case it pops out earlier than expected. Ladies I need to get something off my chest, I’ve been really resentful, and frustrated lately thinking about a few of my friends who blinked and got pregnant. It’s so hard not to be jealous. I wanted a summer baby but that didn’t happen, then would have been happy with a fall baby, and now we’re onto winter. If I conceive this cycle, my due date would be end of nov beg dec. I need to get out of this bitter place I’m in, I’m helping my cousin (best friend who was like a sister growing
up) with her shower, giving her all of Allie’s
most important items to borrow. I’ve been keeping them thinking oh we’ll have babies close together, I’ll be pregnant soon enough.
I know I need to be grateful for the sweet daughter that I have, but it’s sad to think that at first I wanted a 1.5 year age gap. If I conceive now, it will be an almost 3 year gap, as she’s almost 2 already. I got pregnant my 2nd month with my first baby. What the hell is going on that I’m not conceiving? I know that medically everything checks out but who knows if it was bad egg quality, (I’m 32), sperm couldn’t penetrate the egg, or implantation problems. My best guess would be egg/zygote quality. In IVF it was common to see over 50% of fertilized eggs arrest. Sorry for the rant, I just wanted to get it off my chest. Infertility can kiss my butt! This will be the month for us!

Oh and for some reason I’m annoyed (maybe due to some jealousy?) of the choices my friend had made for her registry. $46 onesies from Neuman Marcus? Give me a break! She wants the Uppababy vista stroller, I first had it in black but scratched crazy easily so I returned it emmediately to get the silver frame. I warned her about that and she changed it to the silver frame with blue seats. I went to go buy a car seat from her registry (she would give it to us once done using so we can use it for our next baby) and Just saw that she changed it back to black. Don’t know what to tell you missy, but I ordered the $360 car seat in blue, not black. She told me she’s super grateful to me for sharing Allie’s things with her/buying the car seat brand new for her/us.im just jealous, that’s all. She got pregnant her first month trying! I know it’s sooo stupid and petty but thanks for letting me rant! anyone else feeling jealous lately?