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Hi there I am a mother to a 17 yr old son 12 yr old daughter..... I had a miscarriage before my son.... very early on about 7 weeks. I believe I had a chemical preg last month.

My thought was to have my children in my 20's so that I would still be young as they moved on.

No one plans on a divorce after 20 years. Well my soon to be husband would like to have 2 children. I am now 40. I never would have thought I would start again but here I am.

With reading everyones posts it we agreed to start trying sooner rather than later.

I conceived my other 2 with the first or second try. But this now is scarier now.
I have had every symptom on the list and caved and tested today, bfn. I am supposed to be 11/12 dpo.
Felt like implant may have happened on this past tues with 3 sharp pains and dull cramps off/on all the time.

So there is my story. Still hoping for a BFP around Halloween

Shanstar thanksthanks for your reply and your story! its great that you are ttc again!my sister in law had three children in her 40s all eighteen months apart so try not get too sdtressed about it. it will happen! i have my fingers crossed for for this month though! ill be testing the morning after halloween so let me know how you get on with your test ok? baby dust to us all xxxxx

Hello, I am 4 dpo. Trying to conceive first baby after an early miscarriage at 6 weeks last month. So sorry about your stillbirth. Must have been awful
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Hi mrs rev thanx for replying and so sorry about your loss. Its so hard to finally get your bfp and then your hopes to be dashed weeks later x x.Yeah my stillbirth was pretty tough but I'm trying to stay positive now for the future. It just seems to be taking so long to get pregnant agin but I've only been trying for 3 months so I'm hopeful it will happen soon. How are you feeling about this month? Have you been charting or anything?

Hi ladies!

I'm glad I found this forum! I'm currently 6 dpo and going crazy. Peeing on opks just to get it out of my system. I'm ttc #1 since April. I had a miscarriage in August and this is my 1st month back to it. I'm trying to stay busy but oooooooh my goodness this is terrible. Hope time flies for all of us!!!

Hi army wife so glad you joined!im so dorry for your loss! i know I've been driving myself crazy too! I'm so distracted I can't get a thing done in the house! I think when you lose a baby there is more of an impatience to be pregnant again because you've done this roller coaster wait already and you just( to a certain degree ) just want back what you've lost. When will you be testing? I lost all sense and self control last night and tested at 7dpo! Obveiously a bfn! Will not test now til Thursday I will be 11dpo by then kmfx for us all x x x

Hello Ladies! I'll be testing mid November. This is my 2nd month ttc and praying this will be our month. We had a false + and decided to try again, after we thought we were done.

Welcome mzthang. Isn't it amazing how two lines on a test false or not can alter your opinion and perception? We thought we where done too and then I fell pregnant last April and we where thrilled and when we found out it was a boy (we have two girls already)we thought it was just meant to be. Sadly I lost my boy at 20 weeks but we are now trying again and I believe that I am being led somewhere., everything happens for a reason I just hope this my month and fingers crossed and baby dust to us all x x x

I'm feeling pretty anxious this month - I used pols which said I ovulated on cd 20 - normally I ovulate cd 15/16 so I'm expecting a longer month. Really anxious about getting a bfn though. So stressful. Seems to be all I think about and driving me crazy
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Not pols, *opks* stupid predictive text
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