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My first time posting. I have been lurking for a while. I have been ttc off and on for a while. It may have taken this time but I am terrified for the bfn after seeing one every time I tried and the depression that hit after. I am a week+ late with cramping and so far no signs of af.

12 dpo and I’m not spotting anymore. So confused on what’s going on.amd threw up right after I posted I’m not spotting anymore.

Well I think I’m 1dpo today - although my temp hasn’t shot up like it normally does. Guess I’m a slow rise this month! Obviously it’ll be a couple of days til it’s confirmed but I’m pretty sure yesterday was O day. I’m prob going to be out this month as we didn’t manage to BD last night and the last time was Friday. 4 days ago. Not ideal!

@SuperRoo - You should BD today! There still might be time to catch that egg and give you an better chance this cycle.

@chweety & Juboo4u - Welcome! It looks like all of us are in the tww with the two of you.

@DV2007 - If you are one week late that is one of the best indicators that you might be pregnant. Missing your period is one of the best symptoms you can get! You should take a test. Are you normally regular? If you are take the test to at least put your mind at ease. I'll be crossing my fingers that you get your BFP.

AFM - I'm 12DPO and still waiting to test until Saturday (15 DPO). My breasts are tender as they normally are during this part of my cycle but they feel more tender and sore then normal. I've been super fatigued the last two days and this morning I have a full feeling in my lower abdomen... Kind of like I'm bloated but I don't normally get bloated during my cycle until the 1st or second day of my period. I guess I could say I'm feeling cautiously optimistic. I stopped temping this morning because I just don't want to see it drop at this point in my cycle.

@Flamingogirl13 I am normally regular with maybe 1-2 times a year being 2-3 days late. I was suppose to start on 2/28. I started what I hope was spotting this morning and it hasnt gotten heavier which is my usual mo. If nothing changes tomorrow then I am going to go get test. I dont keep any on hand because dh is a nervous nelly and wants me to take one if I am a hour late it feels some months.

I am nervous, you guys! I've had an increase in CM, but don't want to get my hopes up. I very much want to give birth this year :/

Well I am offically out. This is more than spotting. I am on to trying next month and hopefully have a December baby. Good luck to the rest of you ladies!

@2Tim4_7 - I want to give birth this year too but i’m starting to think I only have one more chance at a 2018 baby. Good luck to you!

@DV2007 - I’m sorry you are out this cycle. I think I am too. I took an HPT this morning and it was BFN. I’ll know this weekend if i’m really out and i’ll test on Sunday if AF doesn’t show.

@flamingogirl13 I hope it was wrong. I will take a false negative over a false positive. Otherwise I will hope for a December baby for you.

Hey girls,

I've been following you all for a while but I feel like I need a bit of support so I'm going to post! I had a missed miscarriage in December at 10+1 weeks (baby measured 8 1/2 weeks) and this is our first month properly ttc again (tracking with OPK, CM, CP etc).
My husband is 37 (Spanish) and I'm 32 and we live in Madrid, Spain (hence the strange times of my posts!!)
I'm now 7dpo (+opk on the 1st March) and I just feel so anxious, even though I really do understand that it would be very lucky to get pregnant in the 1st cycle after my MMC. If we conceived this month, the due date would be the 23rd November I think.

Anyway, anyone else around 7dpo? Good luck to all of those in the TWW and congrats and H&H 9 months to those pregnant chicas!

xxx