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hello yall! sending a warm welcome to all the new faces i see and hello to the ones i have seen a time or two. i want to take a moment and tell @beautiful how devastating this is to hear about the MC. i am truly from the bottom of my heart sorry to hear about this. i know you have a rough go just getting the bfp to begin with and now this. one a lighter note i'd like to say that i am glad to hear that physically you are ok and got the ok to TTC. Meaning i am glad to hear that you didn't have to have a D&C or what have you. i am wishing you nothin but the best, baby dust and sticki bean! not just you but everyone here as well. That goes for you too @dragonfly, i pray that you can be at peace during this delicate time until your next appointment. i pray for those of us who are O'ing or waiting, successful BD for that precious golden egg to be found by her mate and LET'S GET SOME BFP by golleee ya'll what are we waiting on! take one day at a time! least we not forget steak and bj night is right around the corner! (pardon my french) for those of us who don't know what this is all about, its the men's version of valentines. get some pretty loungerie, take your man for steak dinner, or cook him a nice dinner spice things up, get pretty tell him how much you love him and want to have a baby and DTD!

@katyfootballmomma. Thank you very much for your kind words. It really means a lot to me. I've been asking around and a lot of people have been saying that it's too early to hear the heartbeat this early. I know I will have my answer soon enough and then wonder why I stressed myself out so much. I really do hope that this is your month and that you get your BFP.

@calvingirl i was saying that to my husband the other day. We dated for 10 years before getting married and never once had a pregnancy scare bc we were super careful and deathly afraid. Now here we are at 37 actively trying after 'doing everything right' and we lose our baby at 23 weeks and are now back to square one. Life is a funny thing...

Hi ladies im here ..i got my hcg back at 12.6 then the next day bleeding ????..tests are now neg so im counting from 3.3.18 as first day of period ..anyone else on the same days as me ..i work nights so hard for me to chart but i am religiously. .im a nurse so asked a doc at work about best times to take ovulation test and temps and he said when i wake up temp and about 2pm and 1am to do opk ..im getting dark opk so windering if im going to ovulate earlier ..i have concieved one baby on a period and one literally a day after so wouldnt be surprised ..when do you all start opk testing ?

mememe32- so sorry to see you back here. I have an approx 30 day cycle and have been using OPKs since CD5 (when AF finished) I used them once per day from CD5 till CD9. From CD10 I have been using twice a day, 10am and 3pm. From CD12 I have also been using CB digi OPK with FMU. Once my OPKs start getting darker I use 4 or more OPKs a day. Though this month, CD19 and OPKs are still so light I'm beginning to think this will be an annovulatory cycle.

katyfootballmomma — we used the SMEP and it worked the first time, three times in a row (MC, baby, MC.) This last time around it wasn’t working — we tried for four months and then I started seeing a fertility acupuncturist and she recommended doing it every other day (or adjusting based on BBT.) We did that last month and BAM we’re pregnant. Just wanted to share in case that might help — our husbands are the same age Hope you get your BFP soon!

Hey ladies I had a question for the ones who have experienced a loss. I know I’m probably stressing and need to relax as a friend told me the same thing lol. But I have been have fertile cm since CD8 took opk all negative around CD16 it’s watery cm now still negative opk. I am now on CD 19 and still negative opk even bought the clear blue digital “blank ?circle?” I have read that most women ovulate 2weeks after there miscarriage but I’m going on 3weeks now on Monday? We have been BDing every other day. Can someone give me some relief?

Beaut1ful38- after my first loss I went straight back to a 28 day cycle, after my second it was 6.5 weeks before AF returned (i wasn't using OPKs back then so not sure on O). Every person and every loss we respond differently. Keep testing hun.

BB2018- I see a second line on the last one, but given how dark the test dried I'm not sure I'd trust it yet. Definitely keep testing!!

AFM- Finally got a positive OPK today (CD21) which definitely puts this cycle into December. Now to get BD when DH wakes up. We DTD CD16, 17, 18 & 19 already, but I was giving up hope so had yesterday off ????

I got a “flashing smiley” just now. I’m so happy to see that! Hope to see a “solid smiley” here in a few days! Guess that answers my question earlier. All in his timing

Hi ladies! Good to hear from you all. 10/11/12 dpo unsure? And had a negative pregnancy test this am that turned light positive after time allotment. I did a very low dose trigger 14 days ago so it could be that. Really don’t want to get my hopes up again month after month. I’m so sorry to those ladies who had chemicals/that got positives to only get their periods. It’s so heartbreaking
Glad to see that we’re not alone in this and have each other