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I do the exact same except I'm always 'hopeful'.. it's been just over a year of trying for our second, with one miscarriage.. and for at least 9 of those months I figure out every step of the way.. from ovulation, implantation, 6 weeks, 12 weeks, the gender ultrasound, when it's viable.. to when I'll need to buy maternity clothing and when I'll be off work!! I used to think every month is THE month, but now I just do it for crazy curiosity.. and same as you.. hope. I say it's normal as long as we keep it fun and don't get anxious with it all! Good luck with everything and I hope you get your positive soon!!

I think that is a like a defense for us. If we didn't have hope or that though process of "this is MY month" then I bet we'd all just say screw it and be done with it! Hell, I don't even ovulate and I still have that feeling lol maybe just maybe we bd at the right time and my body will decide to ovulate tomorrow! So I think we NEED to thing that way to keep on going :) In that respect hopefully this is YOUR month lol!

Hope is never a bad thing. It's what keeps alot of us going. Keep your hope alive girl because I have no dout that you will be blessed again. Hugs and lots of baby dust.

You are an encouragement to me!!!! I have a hard time being hopeful and positive!!! keep it up and i know you will get a bfp!!!!!!

I do exactly the same... I map it all out....but them AF shows....when it does i think "forget it, I'm not doing this again"...then along the way I somehow get tempted to start trying again and it starts all over. All the tracking, all the notes, the OPKs,...etc.
It really is an "emotional rollercoaster" like many call it.

I really hope the desires of your heart come true.
Blessings and baby dust to u.