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My heart goes out to you! I can imagine the pain you must feel & how torn you must be. I pray God brings you a sticky baby soon & also ends the agony in your heart towards your sister in law and your precious niece.

You're not a horrible person, you are just frustrated and you have every reason to feel that way. I was ttc for over a year and watched my DH's two sisters both get pregnant on their first or second month ttc (they were a little older than your SIL) and have my nephews the whole time I was getting bfn's each month. Even though I was jealous, I was also happy for them (I know the situation is different of course...but it is what it is). I know it's not easy and my heart definitely goes out to you, but look at the bright side. Your DH is going to be well-prepared for when your time comes. If he is doing this much for his sister, imagine how awesome he'll be when it's his child:-) She's going to have a tough time as a teen mom, so try to help her and your DH as much as you feel you can. It might just help you too. I'll keep you in my prayers! Just hang in there:-)

your not a horrible person by any means..if anything u r awsome for talking her outa it i honestly cannot stand when i her abortion we had to watch soemthing in school yrs ago obvoualy 27 here showing how they do it and everything and even now thinkin bout it breaks my heart ..my fiance and i have been ttc for over a yr now and it does make me sooo angry to see pregnant teens but id rather see that then see a baby with a heartbeat be flushed out..i do agree your hubby should have stayed with u for sure id be just as upset..all i would do is explain y u felt like that ..anyway iuno if this makes u feel better but i hope everything turns out ok!

I am so sorry. It's very, very hard when other people seem to get pregnant so easily when you are TTC. It's normal to be jealous and frustrated. Vent to people who understand and try to be happy as you can for those that are falling pregnant (as hard as it may be). Hopefully it will be your turn soon and how fun that your baby will have a cousin close in age. Also, as a side note if you've been TTC for a year and/or had a multiple miscarriages, make sure to discuss it with you doctor (if you haven't already). Lots of luck and baby dust!

Noooo....you're not a horrible person! I can definitely understand your frustration. But as someone said try talking with someone who understands.....i'm sure it felt relieving just to get that out, without being judged. As hard as it may be.....try and be there for your SIL she needs you as does your hubby. We are here for you! Your little one s in the making!

im sorry. it hurts so bad. no words to describe how u feel. all i can say is sorry to know that. im ttc and i know its hard to accept when got bfn. :(

Ladies your words have given me lots of strength! it definitively felt better to let it out and to hear that there are people that understand... Im so thankful that you guys took time to read this and to write a response, it really made me feel better.. I was even crying, but not because I was sad, but because I feel like I have support. Thanks!