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@beck I don’t think the test looks lighter. It looks almost the exact same as the previous one. There’s still hope!
@JL I would be excited and thrilled to have a baby with my SO. And I would love that baby so very much. It’s just such a hard decision, because I’m getting older and I had my two oldest right after high school. I’m finally making decent money and paying off debts. Daycare is so expensive. I’m just worried that another baby is going to cause so much stress as far as money goes. Not to mention that my SO already seems frustrated sometimes that we are limited on what we can do because I always have my three year old and I don’t like to get babysitters. He’s so used to coming and going since he has never had kids. It would just be a huge lifestyle change for him. So that’s why I put a time limit on it. If I don’t conceive by my appointment in May, then I’m getting surgery. I’ve had surgery once and it failed, so this will be more permanent. Leaving it up to fate! We would love a baby very much, but we will be ok if it doesn’t happen.

Just back from EPU, had an internal scan which showed nothing which I expected as I’m not even 4 weeks yet. They’ve taken bloods and if it’s over 100 I have to go back Saturday to have more done and go from there. I keep praying that maybe it’s not the pregnancy ending but I just think I’m kidding myself

So after having the vaginal ultrasound I’m not sure if he shifted something or what but my bleeding has stopped. Of course I’ll never know if this is a coincidence or not I hope it’s a good sign and I just had some crazy breakthrough bleeding or something. We’ll know tomorrow if my results are negative on bloods

@kelly A relaxed approach is so nice. I keep forgetting to temp this cycle. Hopefully I’ll remember closer to O day and during my TWW.
@beck I can’t wait to find out the results of your blood test tomorrow. Wishing you all the luck!
@JL Another temp rise is a good thing. I hope you get your BFP!

@beck I would still be clinging to hope as well with a test like that. It looks great.

Thanks everyone for your positive vibes! I rang back and got told it was low at 89 but looking at betabase the median for 12dpo is 50, so how is 89 low?! The saga continues!!

@jl I’m sorry you’re feeling down :( maybe a late implanter!!

Positive OPK CD 12. Today 1 DPO fingers crossed!!!!

I am hoping for a December 2019 baby!! Had a series of miscarriages last year, and the anniversary of the third is in just a few days. Have been temping and using OPKs. I am 9 dpo and I am trying very hard not to get my hopes up with the faint FRERs I got yesterday and darker today. I’d be due 12/19/19 if this is legit. Digital is still negative and a CVS brand I took has such a faint that the camera doesn’t pick it up. FRER picked up a chemical pregnancy in November so I am praying that line keeps getting darker and that my digital is positive tomorrow.
Anyone else know intellectually that all the testing isn’t rational but do it anyway because it gives you that moment of ahhhh? Lol my husband must want to kill
Me. Baby dust to all.

Alright so my peak opk happened today so does that mean I ovulate tomorrow? Isn’t cycle day 20 late to ovulate?

Sounds good to me. I have been ovulating anywhere from CD15-17 lately, but I’m already having a lot of fertile cm and even a little cramping. Thinking O might happen early. I’m very very fertile in April. Two out of my three children were conceived in April.