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@Momma I'm an Aries too! Actually if this baby sticks it will have been conceived on my birthday! Haha!
I've posted a pic of my tests to see if anyone else agrees they're fading now? Bottom is 11DPO this morning with FMU. Dunno if the test is just a bit odd as the line is a bit broken up, not sure if that makes a difference.

I think u should retest.The last test is not clear.Seems almost same darkness as previous test.

@starlight I'm not buying anymore tests now. I think I'll wait until the bleeding stops and then test to see if it's gone negative. I'm hoping early pregnancy unit will book me in for bloods today, but considering that they've not answered their phone for the last 2 days I wont hold my breath. Pretty sure this is just a very slow and fortunately painless miscarriage

@beck, I am so sorry. I hope it isn’t and that you can get blood done soon.

@momma, that makes sense. I tell my husband that if we have a couple more kids there will be no point to me working because all of my money will go to daycare. We are paying double what we paid for our daughter as a baby because we moved states. It must be so hard coming from different situation with your SO. He would definitely be awoken so to speak once a baby comes along. I didn’t know you had put a time limit on it! Maybe I need to try to look at this as it is out of my hands. We can do everything we think is right when it comes to going about ttc, but if it isn’t the right time it just isn’t going to happen for us. We have to leave it up to fate.

AFM Well, I had another temp rise this morning, but no BFP yet. Hoping the temp rising is a sign that I will get a positive in a few days. I had a 10 day luteal phase last cycle but it was my first cycle PP. that means AF is due Friday, but really who knows since this is only my 2nd cycle.

Good morning ladies. I haven't been here in about a week. We are all over our various illnesses, and I am in my fertile days. I haven't really been temping, or using OPKS this cycle. I'm trying to be more relaxed about everything. Beck and Lissa, I'm sending you love. Good luck to you all.

Ladies. Looks like some very promising BFPs are on there way. Congrats to those who recieved theirs.

I'm 11dpo and waiting to test if AF doesn't come by Saturday I'll test then.

@bug good luck on Saturday with your test! I pray it's positive

AFM: bleeding started again last night/early morning. My cervix is high and firm but still got blood when I wipe. It's so odd, it's too red, too long and too light to be a period, but when I say light it's not, it's just that my period is usually 1 day of light, 2 days of heavy a day of medium and light again. This has been consistent these 6 days, never changing colour, nothing. EPU will ring this morning if my results are negative but if not I have to stay in limbo until Saturday morning when I go back for more tests, which I then wont hear from over the weekend either - ugh! So much limbo!!

Got some more FRERs coming today, I've saved my FMU to see if there's any progression

FINAL UPDATE: So Hospital have rung back and the HCG levels are very low so they don't want to do a 48 hour test they want to see me in a week, which I'm assuming is to track my HCG back to zero, so I'm going to log this bleeding as a period and start the TTC journey again, here goes cycle 4, let's hope my body can figure it out better this time. I've continued to take my B6 a B-complex vitamins to help my luteal phase throughout this ordeal so hopefully that works! Good luck ladies :)

Sorry, Beck. I was hoping your journey would be short.

I woke up this morning to a drop in my tempt so AF is probably on her way. I was really hoping this cycle was the one. 10 cycles and no BFP, 5 cycles tracking. It's so frustrating and this is just the latest bout of TTCing. Ugh, so mad at my body, I know I cant say I'm out till AF actually shows but my body is doing what it always does before she comes. At least I have an appointment. On the 10th to get my hormones check and my egg reserves.

@bug Sorry to hear you had a temp drop. Still not out yet until AF shows. Fingers crossed!
@beck I’m sorry to hear your hcg was low. That is disappointing. We’ve had so many heart breaks in this group this month. Hopefully April brings better luck.
AFM... my temps are very stable and steady this cycle so far. Usually they are up and down. I’ve got less than a week until my fertile days. I think I will start an April board here soon.