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Mamacj I know he has a lot on his mind. And i should be more patient with him. But it's so hard when all i need is some sex lolol sorry to be crude.
I'm 1dpo and I always say I'm not going to test early and my 10dpo i am losing my mind.

Espence I totally understand! Sometimes we don’t want to either but we know that’s not how babies are made and do it anyways haha

I’m glad to have someone to wait with at least!

Hey ladies! Sorry I have been absent for so long. The holidays get really busy and I wasn't feeling up to the emotional stresses of everything. Today would have been cycle day 82 but it is finally cycle day 1!! I know that is something kind of silly to be happy about when trying to conceive but my cycles have been anything but normal since coming off the mirena. I am just happy that we are finally at a place where we can try again! I am getting in to a doctor in the next couple weeks to make sure my hormones and everything are where they need to be. Hypothyroidism runs on my mom's side of the family (literally all the women on my mom's side has it, including my sister) so I am going to get that checked out. Congrats to everyone who have gotten their positives and baby dust to everyone still trying!

@Kait stay positive even when hard
@Anna i think starting with Clomid is a great idea and it is cheaper than IVF.
@mamajc and Espence i swear men have their time of the day instead of the month. But they are much more like toddlers /preteens.
@shay welcome back. Wow your cycles are very long. Hypothyroidism and PCOS will do that. I know because I have both Hashimoto and PCOS. And I am taking metformin and levothyroxin to help regulate my cycles. I use to skip 2-3months with no periods and sometimes have no ovulation. It makes it even harder to conceive but not impossible. It took my DH and I 4y and half but we did it. Hoping we can do it again with less time ????.
I am feeling under the weather ladies. I am trying to rest but it's not easy while trying to watch a toddler. Praying for everyone. 4Dpo today cervix is still very high and seems closed. Cm is watery. My heart hurts a bit and have scratchy throat. Temp went from 97.2 to 97.8 today. Hopefully it s a baby sign and not a cold sign.
Let's stay positive.

@shay yay! You should definitely be excited about that! It's a relief to see AF when you just want to be on to the next cycle.

@lalou feel better! Hopefully it doesn't turn into a full blown cold.

@lalou yeah I am not sure what is going on. Since coming off Mirena I haven't been able to get into a regular cycle. I am hoping it is still just my body figuring out what to do with the hormones and nothing serious. Hypothyroidism isn't a huge deal at least. I am hoping that we won't take 4 years to conceive since this is our first one we are trying for. Just hoping this will all work out for the best.

@kait thanks girl I'm positive we will As with your chart hopefully it'll jump back up again girl I have my fingers crossed for you

@essence giiiirrrrlll tell me about it I think it's all men lately... I'm sorry he's being an asshole though and that he talks to you about whatever is bothering him... My SO stopped in the middle of sex last night because "I'm not turned on by him" just because I wanted him to slow down a bit otherwise he's gonna finish and not me... So yeah on that front it sucks...

@shay yassss babe I'm happy AF showed for you !! Now the tracking starts again lol but I agree that it's a good idea to get it tested especially if it runs in the family

@lalou the money of IVF doesnt bother me at all it's just that when I reach the emotional point of I'm done trying naturally because my mental health cant cope then I'd option for that and I know a lot about it because my one friend is doing IVF (even though it's only her 2nd month trying but she's got endometriosis) but if it diesnt have to get to that then I'm happy with whatever works... I'm sorry you're feeling a little sick girl but if it helps I saw a lot of ladies got colds around implantation so hopefully a good sign

@anna it did come back up! And I hate symptom spotting, but now that you said that about colds, I woke up super stuffed up yesterday and couldn't figure out why.

9dpo here. Tested this morning with a cheapie because of the temp jump. Left it in the bathroom to go lay back down in bed and a few minutes later my husband started asking "how many lines are supposed to be on this?" So I got up to check because he said he saw something faint. It's not a BFP, it's kind of like those optical illusions. If you let your eyes relax you can see something lol totally ridiculous, but I'm kind of wishing I had a FRER now.

@kait your chart looks like the charts I’m stalking (lol) when I wanna see an implantation dip! Crossing fingers for you that you’ll get a more visible line tomorrow

I’m officially on the tww 2dpo today and I promised my self I won’t test till 10dpo. I never had the strength to wait when I had tests in the house. Let’s see how I’ll do this cycle. I’m really tired of my self taking tests too early and without reason.. So I hope I’ll find something to distract me!!