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Hi, ladies decided to join this forum . I am 4dpo I believe , I am on like CD 68 after a MMC in October at 10 weeks, it’s been a long cycle . Hoping to test Christmas . Anybody else? Is my chart look good?

@anuh I hope you get your bfp babe I'm due the day before Christmas

@k8mcm I'm testing on Friday or Saturday it depends but yeah still planning on testing... I'm glad your luthial phase is getting longer and we'll be testing same day !!

Well I woke up with cramping this morning that kinda felt like diarrhea cramps lol but switched over to the cramping I got when i was pregnant so that's scary and exciting

@babytears I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through something similar and it took my body awhile to get back on track too. It does look like your temp finally jumped up. Did you have a breakthrough bleed that you counted as CD1?

I’m 8 dpo and can’t tell if I have line eyes or a vvvvf bfp?

@lindsay I see it

Yes had break through bleeding

Hi ladies I'm back. I see so many friends from August Baby post. Sorry ladies, hope this is our month. Been super quiet since AF visited. It was recently my wedding anniversary so we had a mini getaway. Hopefully it helps with the stress lately and give a good cycle this month. I'm all over the chart from 28-77 days. I'm currently on CD9....ovulation date=anonymous. I'm probably not going to track ovulation this cycle and stick to BD every 2nd day until AF show or test after CD40.

@itsanna you asked about birthing plans the other day. When I gave birth back in Jan of this year, my plan was natural birth but ended up in an emergency c-section. It was very traumatic and the healing process is no fun. Dr also recommended min 18 months apart between birth. Had it been natural birth we would have been ok to try again sooner without the risk of a rupture uterus. It's difficult waiting because I felt robbed of my 1st time being a mom. I've only given birth once but I won't get c-section if I didn't have to next time. Finger crossed I'd be ok for a VBAC. I don't mind the scar because it is a reminder I fought to safe my son. However, the phantom itch on my incision (nerve damages???) keeps me up at night. ???? Also, it's not recommended to have more than 2 or 3 c-section (can't remember). Probably not ideal for anyone looking to have a big family. Sometimes it's necessary to have a c-section. I have nothing against c-section, you do you ladies.

@jenny thanks for the feedback babe and welcome back to trying for another month I hope it all goes well !!

I'm getting super excited to test but also terrified because there is always the possibility of a negative so we'll see but I can't wait anymore I'm gonna go get a digi and 2 or 3 normal tests this afternoon

@ItsAnna we're a bunch of POAS addicts. Lololol.

I researched easy birthing techniques and I watched many birthing videos on YouTube when I was pregnant with my son and I came across a video of a woman giving birth in a creek. Can't help but think that's how it used to be! Women are built strong! I'm putting the link here in case anyone is curious. WARNING IT'S INTENSE and full nudity.

https://youtu.be/zVIMbDYRXV8

@lindsay I see it too!!!!!

@its Anna those sound like great symptoms!

I have been v v v lightly brown spotting today - only sometimes when I wipe and once with tiny bit of red blood. I really really hope it isnt AF i haven't had any cramps so I'm going to test in the morning and that will give me my answer I suppose!