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@BoyMom28 seems like we have the same cycle! I'm 1dpo now. So exciting!

Official 1dpo today! I'm really hopeful this month as my symptoms are really weird ???? and not what i normally experience monthly spreading hope baby dust and sticky vibes to my April 2019 mommas! Tgif

Hello ladies! Looking for some opinions.

I ovulated on 7/9, cycle day 19. Confirmed with positive OPK on 7/7 and 7/8 and a negative OPK on the evening of 7/9 and my usual severe ovulation pain. Due to heavy EWCM I actually thought I ovulated on the 7th or 8th originally so we BD on the 4th, 5th, 6th, and 8th. With my ovulation on the 9th and no BD on that day or following days did I totally kill our chances? My husband left on the 9th for a work trip so it wasn’t even possible :(

Hi smoseman. You're definitely not out this month. You're timing is great. Chances of BD-ing 3 or 2 days before ovulation are still great, especially when you have EWCM, those are the best days. Don't lose hope!! Fingers crossed for your BFP this month

Hi Veve_n

Thanks for the response! I swear the timing of everything is so hard to wrap my head around. This is going to be a very long two weeks because Im feeling more hopeful than usual!

Waiting for ovulation smile is killing me

@ smoseman, I totally understand. To get the timing right is quite difficult. But don't worry you're already 3 - 4 days in the tww. It'll pass very fast! Good luck for the tests!! When do you plan to start testing?

@Veve_n we are going on a family reunion trip the 23-28th so I’m going to test the weekend before and hope I know my answer. My period is due the 24th but I would really rather not be POAS in our air bnb with 20 family members

Smosen you have a pretty good chance seeing that sperm can live 5 to 7 days in the cervix ill say your covered .

Hey Smoseman, welcome cycle buddy. and

If ovulated on 9th and BD on 8th, that's a high chance. Wow, we truly are cycle buddies. I too ovulated on the 9th and BD on 8th.

I was using clear blue advance opk as my cycles can be between 24-27. I had low fertility for some days when testing, and peak on the 8th, with no high fertility in between.