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Oh and I just found out that one of my friend is pregnant.... I know I should be happy, but GOD knows I am jealous !!! Please give me some advice how to go through this without her noticing I hate the facts she is preg and I can't get there :(((((((( ohhh I hate my life :(((((( I am heart broken

No fear ! 4dpo is far too early to feel anything anyways and not all women get after ovulation symptoms . I never did till recently . Are you at all tracking your bbt? Cervical mucus and or cervical position ? And don't worry Hun your time will come ! Stay positive and just know in your heart it will happen . I too went through this with my sister in law. I so badly wanted to be the first pregnant in the family to have the first grand baby but .., it didn't work out that way in fact she had two kids before I had my son and she also had the first girl on my husbands side on a long long long time , something I had also wanted to attribute. So I know that heart break . I think a lot of us can relate .

Thank you Nicole for your kind words :). In the past I used opk and bbt charts.... This month thou felt tired of trying... All I keep track off was CM AND CERVIX POSITION. that's it.... So I am guessing my dpo. If in the next 2 months we can't conceive my doctor wants to send me to a specialist as it's going to be almost 1 years since trying.... I was hoping to get my so wanted BFP by then. And I will try my best to be positive and nit feel much at this point. But it's sooo hard. When you want something so bad Xoxo

Sorry you totally answered my question already ! This is the month you didnot track anything . Which is totally ok ! It's good to every once in a while put "trying " on hold and try to have fun with it and connect with your partner again too. The ttc game can be so wearing especially getting your hopes up only to be greeted with a BFN.

I'll be honest . We did the shettles method this cycle for a girl
And bd'd like a day or two before I ovulated . No we didn't really plan it that way but idk my head is playing games with me . I don't think we bd'd enough and I think our accidental "oops" that started us on the road to not trying and not preventing wasn't enough this time . But then. Remember when I conceived my son . We only bd'd once that entire week, I thought for sure I was out because of that ! Sorry fort rambling ladies ! So much going on in this head of mine .

Ralcu- have you tried or looked into soy isoflavones ?

You only BD ONCE..?.....?.?. Wow you hit the right spot lol ....I am hoping this month is the one, but so far I am not that positive unfortunately, had to many bfn so far, hard to believe it's the month

No, I haven't, honestly don't even know what's that lol.... I thought I should try the natural way.... But failing so far

Ralu: I'm due for AF July 14 also. Have you ever tired Preseed? I heard other woman say it worked for them and you would still will be doing it the natural way because it's only lubricant that suppose to help them travel to where they need to go.

@Venus if this month it's not BFP I will def be happy to try anything that could help, and I mean anything :D

And ladies, wanna take a moment and thank you for being here with me, gives me hope and I appreciate having someone to talk to. :) xoxo