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Agatch I’m so glad you decided to join us again even though staying in here for too long is not what I wish for you! Hopefully you’ll be having one successful, beautiful pregnancy very soon! You’ve been through so much and if everything seems to be fine, I’m sure it won’t take too long! Is your doctor planning to do any more tests?

Dragonfly I don’t really know how it feels to have those pregnancy symptoms but I hope they will calm down. I’ve read so many times that strong symptoms is always a good sign. I don’t know what could indicate twins but since you want it so much I really hope you’ll be finding out exactly that soon!! Do you want same sex twins or one of each?

Kyla I would say just to be sure, till you get a pattern to start taking them around CD8. They usually suggest evening urine but for example for me works better with FMU. So you could take them twice per day just to be sure to catch the surge if you’re on the shorter side. Most of women get their positive 12-24 hours before O but you could actually get it same day (I always get it same day. I have a very short surge). Opks are positive only when the test line is as dark or darker than the control line. Based on your cycles you should ovulate around CD12-13. Taking also your temps along with opks will help you see more clearly and confirm when you ovulated. I hope this helps!!

Mill I’m not familiar at all with progesterone levels but from a brief research I did I think your numbers for 7 dpo are good. What did doctor said?

Hberry So glad that you had the chance to bd before O. Fingers crossed that something is about to happen in there!!!

AFM I’m CD2 and woke up in the worst way. Yesterday was the day I changed my dosage for the last time. On CD2 I’m usually in the peak of my bad cramping and woke up today In the worst possible way ***TMI WARNING*** flooded in blood, I was in terrible cramping and I barely made it to the bathroom because I had TMI the worst diarrhea ever. I’m pretty sure this was a side effects of the higher dosage of medication last night but along with the cramping and the blood accident I had in my sleep it was way too much for a girl who is already depressed because she’s not pregnant for once more lol I mean ladies wth? It was like everything decided to explode in me just to make sure it shows me that I’m in my lowest right now
Sorry for the detailed description but you guys are the only ones who’ll understand!! I hope no one was eating lol

Alex I just pray that all this for mess gives you your baby!

@Hberry. I'm glad that your husband agreed and that he didn't pull out. Hope you can caught the egg in time.

@agatch. Thank you. I appreciate that.

@Alex. Sorry the witch got you again. I hope the meds will sort themselves out and you will start to feel better soon. Not that I want it so much, but If this is a multiple pregnancy then I will be happy with what I am blessed with but there will be no more babies as my max is 3.

AFM. My girlfriend is freaking out as yesterday she wiped there was brown blood, then a little bit later it went pink then red. Today spotting seemed to have stopped and her test line is still dark. Surprisingly, she has her dating scan tomorrow morning. I am anxious on how it will go for her but curious to see how far along she really is. UPDATE #1: still some slight spotting, nothing too alarming. She got her ultrasound rebooked for today at 11. I will give an update soon. UPDATE #2: my friend says that her doctorbis going to call her and that the sonographer says she's really early and not much to see.

Dragonfly- I hope so too. Im just wishing and praying for another daughter now rather then further down the road. ( Like in my parent's case), my mom was 45 and my dad was 52 when my youngest sister (who is now 18) was born. I am trying to prevent that from happening to me.

I just got informed that my baby's heart stopped beating yesterday or today that means during heavy hematoma bleeding what started 2 days ago. He measured even few days ahead 11+1 but no heartbeat. Going to go to hospita to have abortion. I'm devastated and idk how we will live through this again...

Nasake... I have no words to share and my heart is broken on your news. I wish I could be somewhere there to give you a hug. Even we don’t know each other and this sounds creepy I hope you know what I mean! I literally have tears in my eyes and I understand that this must be heartbreaking for you. Hang in there love. This is so unfair and I hope you’ll find the strength after all this is over, to pick your self up slowly and carefully. For now just take your time, take care of your self, grieve and remember that any time you need to cry, ramble or just let things out here is one safe place to talk. Even if you don’t need any answers! We are all here for you. You’re a strong woman. Sending healing prayers hun! I’m so deeply sorry!

Mill thank you girl! How are you feeling symptom wise? You’re somewhere around 10dpo right?

Dragonfly fingers crossed for your friend and for you now that your first appointment is near!

Hberry I’m sure your baby is around the corner!

AFM cd3 and fortunately everything calmed down. Yesterday was a really awful day. So much pain and uncomfortableness. I shouldn’t have gone to work but we have so many lessons to replace from March, I couldn’t stay home. My brother told me that I’m probably in so much pain cuz my hormones are trying to get back on track. I hope that’s the case. Today I’m feeling fine. I have regular period cramping but that’s about it.
Yesterday also I don’t know what got into me and I went and ordered 25 easy at home cheapies from Amazon. I haven’t tested for months and I was really good with it and actually very calm and relaxed. I know that now with the tests I will go crazy and obsessive. Why do I do this to my self?

@Nasake. I am so truely sorry for your loss. My heart is literrally breaking. I always feel that no baby should ever go before their mom or dad. Hang in there and like Alex said, take some time for you and your husband to grieve. Do you think you guys will try again?

@Alex. Thank you. My girlfriends mood has been up and down with all the spotting she has been having but then it stops. Yesterday when she got home from the ultrasound (lady says to early to see anything but roughly 3 weeks) there was quite a bit of red blood (sorry tmi); but then it slowed down. I'm doing my best to calm her and ease her mind. Hoping the doctor calls jer today to go over the results and I asked her to get her blood drawn to check her HCG levels and I hope that will help ease her mind. I hope your hormones sorts themselves out and all of the stuff you are going through will put your body on the right track. Orfering tests is not crazy. At least you will have some on hand for when it comes time to start using them.

AFM. Not much to report. Yesterday my nipples were so sore when I got home from work and again almost threw up. Even bending over makes me lightheaded. Crazy dreams, and somrimes they are dreams when I got my period; which I seemed to get quite a bit with my last pregnancy and always seem to freak me out when I wake up.

Good luck to anyone trsting soon or about to ovulate. For those in the two week wait; hang in there, and keep yourself busy.

Nasake- I'm so sorry. Take as much time to grieve.
Afm its cd15 and 1dpo so not much for me to report. I also need to get tests for myself.

@Alex I am 11 dpo today and stark white tests. So I'm pretty well out. I ordered some natural progesterone cream and am going to be using it next cycle after O. Also going to take a higher dose of vit c and b6 to see if it will strengthen O!