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In better spirits today
After hubs throwing all that crap about his job on me and stressing me to within the "Brittney-Spears-Shaved-Head" breaking point, I spent the rest of my day yesterday applying for every job under the sun. I'm at a point where I need stability and security and I'm going to provide it for myself. I have a hard time relying on people and yesterday proves why. A little hiccup at his job and he blows it out of proportion and immediately adds a gazillion (literally, I swear!) pounds of pressure to my shoulders. I know I have faults. I get stressed and anxious easily, I have to plan things out to the most minute detail under any possible circumstance, anything "unknown" freaks me the hell out...maybe I need to talk to someone about it all, I don't know. He managed to get over the said "hiccup" and came home like nothing happened. I'm still trying to de-stress from it.
Regardless, I have a plan. Things will be okay because I'll make sure of it. I'm looking into taking some online classes in the near future to allow me to get a better, higher paying job. We've been looking into some welding classes at the local Career Center for hubs too.
I wanted to thank Mozart for her kind words that initiated the decline in my stress level. Sometimes I just need smacked upside the head and reminded that it'll work out. Thanks for that. :)
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Sorry you had such a rough day. My husband is the same way. When he gets stressed his whole world falls apart and he takes me with him. I am so glad to hear that you're sorting it out and de- stressing. And it's really awesome that you're gonna be taking some classes. That it's such a great thing to do for yourself and your family! Good luck and just try to enjoy your weekend. BIG HUGS!
9 years ago
Thank you girls for all your kind words. We were able to discuss the hiccup without drama and everything is great. He finally understood the point I was trying to make about the situation and agreed. He usually does if he stops and actually hears me. Yesterday was a bit of a struggle. We're are beyond thankful that yesterday is over and we got to sleep in our bed for the first time in 2 months! Woohoo!
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