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Well, my mom thinks it happens when god wants it to...when she was younger she had no problems conceiving naturally. My sister in law also whipped up 2 kids in a jiffy. Me, havin a smudge of a trouble just whipping one up but it has only been 2 months of TTC hard core and 4 ntnp. I believe in using all the tools possible to conceive. I use pressed bbt thermometers, tracking, you name it. :)

I think it varies, some women are just lucky I guess. Although I do believe everything happens for a reason. As to diets, vitamins & aids helping, I think they can only benefit mum and baby. For me personally I think it's been more of a timing issue.

This is our first month actively TTC after 7 years of NTNP, you know.. letting nature run its course. Well nature turned out to be too slow for us so we have intervened. I never wanted to have to do this whole charting and analysing because I knew I would freak myself out and obsess over every little detail. Turns out I was right lol

I think it is a combination of both; I have faith and believe in something outside of ourselves but I also believe we were given brains and inteligence and science to benefit ourselves and others as well. I do believe sometimes you have to remind yourselves that we can not control or "solve" everything. Nature does rule at times but we can help out a little too..... if everything was just science we would have no miracles, no love, no surprises in life....

I agree ladies you all make good points. I guess I will keep utilizing all resources available to me and when its meant to happen it will. Baby dust to all!