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I think you'll still want to use negative sperm if you are negative and the one that's going to be pregnant. They are worried about the carrier's body (you) thinking the embryo is a viral threat and sending out the antibodies to attack it. It's the same with RH-, the egg won't matter, just the carrier's status. And only if you are negative. I'm not an expert, so ask your doc, but I think this is correct. Let me know if I'm spouting crap.

PAbby, you using donor sperm correct? Address. You using a friend Or a sperm bank for the sprem? The reason I ask is I use Fairfax Cryobank. They go into great detail on their website about which you need. Take a look :)

Tj. Woooooooohoooo congratulations darling.

I am still waiting for the nurse to call me about the schedule and we are 4 weeks out from our frozen transfer. I am going to make my husband call Tom. Because every time I try she just keeps saying she will call me. I have now waited almost two weeks and think I should be starting meds soon...

Stay on top of them!!!

BFN HPT this AM. But I just got home from getting the lab draw for the blood test done.

I am sooo friggen nervous!

Meh. Took an hpt this morning at 13dpo and it was weird - immediately gave me a white line (posted a picture under my name if anyone's interested). After about an hour or so on my way out of the house, I looked at it again and the white line now is pinkish (didn't take a photo of that). I'm assuming the test is just messed up, so I'll test again tomorrow but I'm pretty sure I'm out this month.

I'm still plagued by the nausea, but I also have had a really bad headache for the last two days. Maybe I'm just sick.

Rough morning. Bugged DH the past two nights to BD because I was ovulating and both nights he was too tired... then this morning right before I had to leave for work he was wanting to BD. I was livid. I get so tired of bringing my "A game" and when it's too late he's all over me. arrrggghh... so frustrating. How come guys just don't understand we have this teeny tiny window of opportunity.. why can't they just get with the program?!!

Well its 130pm here and I have not heard anything about my blood test I did at 830 this morning.

I am getting worried that they are not going to call me now til Monday. My doc is on vaca til Monday and his nurse told me yesterday that they were only going to be there til noon today.

I left a msg at about 10 this am saying I had the blood drawn.

I am telling you...this whole cycle has been shit.

Well they finally called. Blood test was also negativeas I had assumed.

Still tough to hear those words tho when they tell you for the gazzilionth time its negative :(