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Hi ladies,

I have been reading just the last posts! @lalou I really hope you get the BFP! Crossing fingers for you! @Shay great the clomid worked and you got your O!

Sorry I have been missed during the last weeks, the last month I was really sad, I felt very very negative and so stressed that I didn't want to share that negativity here... I was near the month I should have had my baby, and thinking about that really hurted and made me cry almost everyday.

After the last AF my DH and I had an appointment in a fertility clinic to start thinking about more options, the visit was very useful although very difficult to me for hearing again about how difficult is everything once you reach 38....

We decided to go out this weekend to relax and enjoy together one place we love near the beach... Yesterday I was 12 DPO, I had several symptoms but I kept my hopes low, the only difference was that I was really hungry in the morning, too much! Finally I decided to test and there it was!!! We could see a faint positive! We are so scared that we are happy but not allowing us to be excited after all what happened in May. I send you all
Have a great week!

@ neisamar thank you and congratulations. No matter what will happen in the future that you cannot control or the past that is gone. Enjoy and savor the now. Now you are pregnant now you did it. Relax and enjoy. I will pray for you to have a healthy 9months and healthy rainbow baby.

Thanks a lot @lalou! Really wise and helpful words. I pray also for you

neisamar, so happy to hear your good news

lalou I hope you get your this week

AFM I had my 13 week scan yesterday and everything is normal. Guess I should find an OB now. Here’s a pic of the little guy. My placenta is on the front wall so isn’t that clear.

@lalou I am glad you are doing so well!! Hope you get your positive soon!!

@neisamar I am so happy for you!!! It will get darker I am sure!!!

@russian I am glad everything is looking so good!!

AFM: I am officially 5dpo. Been crampy and my chest has been aching some. My chest aching is pretty typical for post O. The cramping not so much. I am just happy I O’ed and we seem to have timed things well. It is just the waiting game now. My temp is still rising!! It is highest I have ever seen it. I am guessing it will level out soon though. Haha just been going up and up the last few days! Good luck ladies!!!

Thanks a lot Russian, your scan is awesome
@Shay, thanks also to you. I love the positivity in the way you write!! Keep going and I'm crossing fingers for you in this TWW
From my side I'm a worried as I do not see a clear progression of darker lines in the tests, today is CD 28 DPO 14, I'm going to test with the clear blue indicating the weeks, I will keep you updated

Hi again! After the latest tests I am happy! It is becoming darker and the clear blue digital indicates 2-3 weeks! Crossing fingers it continues progressing well and more good news come to all of you!

@neisamar I am so glad you are seeing darker lines! Remember to relax and enjoy the moment!! You got this and are doing so great all ready!! Thank you for the compliment!! I try to be as positive as I can all the time! It is a teacher thing I think haha

AFM: still just waiting 6dpo with high temps still. Definitely higher than I have ever had before. Makes me wonder if more than one egg dropped so I have more progesterone in my system? Guess time will tell. Been feeling off today. Like a pressure is just sitting in my uterus. Anything pressing against my stomach makes me super uncomfortable. Like I had to change out of my jeans as soon as I got home. Chest is itchy and tender. Nips are very sensitive haha and I have a ton of cm. And I mean a ton of it!! It is driving me crazy haha hoping for the best with all of this!! I have had twins on my mind for a long time and the thought just won’t go away!! I would be so thrilled with twins haha but I am happy with even one at this point!! Good luck ladies!!! I am praying for all of you!!

Omg! @ Shay everything sounds amazing. For sure this is your month mama.
@russian beautiful baby
@Neisamar things will be alright. Baby is growing. The first trimester is so weird bc you can t feel much but I am sure baby is growing.

@Ana you must be almost ready now mama. One advice when in labor, keep breathing and only push when you really feel the strong urge. Make sure you rub that area between your but and vagina , very important to not tear. Even if there is a tear, it won t be too big. And hope to hear from you soon.
AFM
AF got me yesterday, cd2 today. It was not our time but we are moving forward. I have another round of Letrozole/Femara. If it does not work I will have to make appointment with fertility doctor in Dec. Praying for everyone.

@lalou I am sorry AF showed up. I love that you are staying positive though!! You are doing great!!

AFM: so tired of waiting and I am only 7 dpo haha I hate waiting that is for sure. I have never had my temps climb like this before. I am trying not to get too excited as this could just be a result of using Clomid. I am feeling off though. Like I almost feel like someone punched me in the gut and now it just aches no matter what. I am grateful that today is workout Wednesday at school so I can wear leggings instead of jeans. Any pressure on my stomach makes me uncomfortable. Chest still tingly and itchy and sensitive. Just waiting now. I am just shocked at my temps!! What do you guys think?