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No accurate temp today because hubby forgot to turn the heat on last night and I tossed and turned all night freezing. Cervix is still high, soft, and closed so hoping that is a good sign.

Alright so my peak opk happened today so does that mean I ovulate tomorrow? Isn’t cycle day 20 late to ovulate?

@mamaof2 I ovulate cycle day 21 so it’s not late at all. Get BDing now :)

AFM: I went to hospital today as this bleeding is making me dizzy and faint and gynaecology refuses to see me until I’ve bled for more than 3 weeks.

I’m losing hope. I have some frers arriving today so going to take one in the morning and see if it’s still dark

Well that makes me feel better that I’m not the only one. We should be covered on BDing. We’ve been BDing in what I thought was my fertile period, we did last night and most likely will tonight. So here’s hoping we catch this egg. The weird part is a had some really bad pains in my ovaries yesterday so I’m not sure what’s going on.
Beck that’s not right they should be seeing you now with all the bleeding you’ve been having. I would demand answers. I’m holding onto hope for you!

Hi all! I had to get caught up on everyone’s updates. I’ve been very busy at home inside and out now that the weather is getting decent. Still have high hopes for everyone. Sorry you are having so much trouble, Beck. Wish you could get some answers sooner than wednesday.

Well just had a little pink CM when I wiped so AF should be here tomorrow (3 full days late). Guess my LP is just longer this cycle so I will go with that length for the next one too and plan not to test until I miss it.

8 dpo today and holding off testing until 12 dpo. Days are passing excruciatingly slow. (But thinking about testing tomorrow at 9dpo with a cheapie ).

@jl aww I’m sorry Hun :( if it’s any consellation I’ll join you next cycle and I think that’ll be the one for us!!

So my final update, I’ve had a pretty big bleed overnight, I went to the hospital yesterday but they weren’t interested unless I’ve bled for more than 3 weeks. My temperature has dropped back down to my pre o temps so I knew it was a miscarriage and today my test was a squinter so my December bean has left me.

This whole situation hasn’t been so incredibly stressful. I have very much learnt my lesson for testing early and won’t be doing that again! I’ve counted all this bleeding as a very long period and once it stops I’ll start using my OPKs to try and see when I ovulate and hopefully catch another egg. I think my body was so confused due to my short luteal phase but I’ve continued with my b6 and b12 so hopefully we can get a nice cosy lining for the next one!

@JL so sorry AF sounds like she’s on her way. A longer LP is usually a good thing, though. I hope this will be your month!
@marj the TWW is torture, but I’m starting to feel like the two weeks leading up to O day is even worse. There’s just nothing to track or talk about. It’s so boring lol.
@beck I’m sorry for your loss. I really thought this was it for you. I hope the bleeding stops soon, and you can look forward to a new cycle.

CD 1 for Me. This means my calculations were correct and I did O on cd12. Very strange for me. It must be the vitex? Inching closer and closer to the 1 year mark of ttc #2. I know people have tried longer than me, but I had just hoped it wouldn't be an issue this time around. Let's just hope it Doesnt take 4 years for this one.