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For #1 i tried 4 years with pcos and on clomid. #2 4 months with no problems. #3 2months #4 3 months after chemical in month 1. I guess its different for everyone and think better to relax. But been told that after a year you can contact doctor as better to check whats wrong. If thats any help.

With my first pregnancy of actively trying it took 3 months. This pregnancy it took 8 months of actively trying and I was trying all sorts of things this time to get pregnant.

Thank you both! Got everything crossed. I try not to stress but it’s hard when trying not knowing what to expect ????
Wish our bodies would give us more of a hint hehe

I'm sorry about your unsuccessful TTC. I've also faced problems with conceiving and I know how you feel now. I understand that this is really hard to move on when nothing works for you. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do to fasten the process. But don't be harsh with yourself. Just give yourself some time. We were TTC for 8 years. This process can take even more time. Remember that you have a family which needs you. So don't put your TTC in the center of your life, because it won't let you to enjoy it. Don't give up and keep trying! I wish you all the best, dear!

Thank you norrinn, I’m going to docs tomorrow as still no luck. I had a cyst on my ovaries a year ago so gonna see if they can check everything... lots of people have mentioned clomid too so gonna ask about that. Cycles still irregular *argh frustrating* been trying not to over focus on it & just enjoying it as it comes x