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Down in the dumps

I'm having one of those days, starting to think this cycle is a bust too and I've been researching IVF success rates in Ireland all morning and then this wave of sadness hit me. I don't want to have to do IVF, I don't want to have to worry that I'd be forking out thousands of euros for something that only has 50% chance of working. Don't get me wrong - I know so many women on here got their miracles from IVF, most recently Emily (Woohoo) but I'm sure none of those women WANTED to inject themselves daily,WANTED to spend a fortune or wanted to live in that fear of "will this work" none of us want that. I know it's all worth it for the babies we so desperately long for, and I will do ANYTHING it takes to get there but I just wish it was easier, I wish I could just get pregnant like so many of the lucky women on here that get pregnant so fast.

My fabulous husband just text me saying "money isn't everything, we'll get there" I'm so blessed.

I guess I'm just having one of those days. I try to stay positive but today sadness has gotten the better of me.

Emily xx


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I hear ya.... This whole journey has been one of the most hardest things I've ever faced. I'm always sad. There isn't a moment when I'm not sad. I just can't help it anymore. Ttc has literally sucked the life right out of me.


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7 years ago


Sorry you are having a bad day. I hear you about IVF I feel the same way. ((BIG HUGS))


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7 years ago


I am sorry that you are going through this pain and sadness. TTC is such an emotional journey. Everytime I get a BFN I get so sad...why can't it happen to me easily like it does for others? Your hubby sounds very sweet and supportive. You will both make great parents. I do believe it will happen for you.


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7 years ago


I feel for you; Every time I come across one of those "It happened so quickly for us and we're just so blessed and lucky," it hurts more. It is wonderful to see that you have a loving and supportive husband through all of this. Fingers crossed for your BFP


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7 years ago


Thanks so much for your kind words and support ladies. It really means a lot. DH has his SA today so we'll know more on Wednesday I think. Been really down about TTC lately. Hope I'll snap out of it soon, but like you ladies, I'm so desperate for a baby. It's all I want, and no matter what I do, it doesn't seem to help. Baby Dust to you fabulous women.


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