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I am so sorry Calvin. for you love!!

Trying - sucks that he has to do that. I guess if you look at it positive at least he's ready to go now.

AFM- I still haven't received a BFP I had a surge on CD17 it was close but then negative. I think my body was gearing up to O but didn't. just hoping that I get one even if it is delay this month. I thought I might have and missed it but my temps are still all over the place. blah!! I think the red raspberry messed with me.

Yeah at least he took a step.. might be me next.obviously what we are doing is not working so we need help. I was ready to do this last year. All I ever heard from him was after this cycle after this cycle...

yeah I get you hun. I finally broke down with my DH and told him I couldn't be in this alone. and if he wanted this as much as I did than he needed to change some of his ways. lately he has been much better thank goodness.

Morning,

This TWW is driving me insane and I'm only 4dpo!
I am really hoping that this is my month (as I hope every month) so we have BD'd every day from CD9 to CD17!

If we don't get our BFP this month we will most likely have to stop trying until the new year as next year we have immideate family weddings to attend to abroad and we obviously wouldn't be able to fly if we were pregnant. I am really hoping that this is our month!

I will be 13dpo next friday which is our 3 year anniversary so would be incredible to get our BFP then.

Good luck to everyone else!!!

xx

Calvin, Margie thank you ladies

Trying that's really awesome he's taking that step to do his part. It def takes two to tango.

Miami I think the red raspberry is a no go too, I've been drinking it not realizing it's possible effects so I stopped this past weekend, hopefully it's not to late.

Afm my temp dropped yet again! Not below coverline but wth, a temp dip at 5dpo and 10 dpo? That damn chart is gonna drive me crazy! AF due in 5 days unless all the stress makes her come early. Feeling slight cramps here and there, cervix feels sore sometimes, on the inside. And it went from soft/medium to firm feeling. CM has been creamy sorry tmi. Yesterday there was an abundance and today it's kind of dry. I really feel out, did frer with fmu and bfn.

Good morning ladies,

Storm - You're not out yet, but I understand the feeling. Try not to give up hope just yet 10 dpo is still pretty early. Also what does red raspberry do? I though it just strengthened the uterus.

Hugs - I can understand how frustrating it would be to delay. Why can't you fly while pregnant? It's my understanding that as long as you're having a healthy pregnancy, you can fly up to 36 weeks, and even later with a doctor's note. I can understand not wanting to go to a bunch of weddings heavily pregnant though. I'll keep my FX for your BFP though. it would be a great way to celebrate 3 years.

Miam - I'm glad your DH is starting to get on board a bit more. I hope that makes this process easier.

Trying - I'm glad your DH is starting to get checked out. It's a good first step. My DH used to try the delaying tactic too. I eventually made an appointment and asked him to be there for it and he's gone along with everything since then... sometimes he's more willing than others. I think he was more unwilling to actually start fertility treatments than he was to move to IVF.

Calvin - I'm so sorry the got you. I'm with you on giving up Clomid. the side effects of that drug were awful. The injectables aren't nearly as bad I find. Actually because the needles are so small they're realy not all that bad in general. Plus I got myself some cool Tweety bird bandaids for them. I'm such a child sometimes but they make me feel better. I'm keeping my FX that this next cycle is your cycle.

Awebste - I've been told that Mat leave goes by super quickly. Who would have thought that a year could fly by. I'll keep my FX that Baby #2 comes quickly for you. Which part of Ontario are you in?

AFM - I have 7 follicles developing so far and I was told that more would develop. only a few more days of shot.. I think. I go for another monitoring appointment tomorrow. FX it's good news.

CD1 for me...the got me a day early..

Good luck to the rest of you waiting for your BFP's, hopefully i wont be seeing you in the June babies thread!!

Baby dust to us all!!!!

Margie - southwestern ontario! maternity leave FLEW by - feels like only yesterday my DD was just born. Yesterday she independently stood for the first time.....I am sure walking isn't far behind. Goes by TOO fast.

calvin & charmed - UGH so sorry! :(

storm - FX for you!

hugs - TWW driving me crazy too - but while I am wishing it away that only means work is looming on Tuesday. Let's hope this TWW proves to be successful for both of us - it will make it all worth it!

afm - nothing new at all...just waiting.

June Babies forum:

http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/forum/post.php?postid=754605

I hope to see none of you there. :)

So I had My Drs. Appointment yesterday. My annual went really well the Dr. said everything looked and felt great. Then I talked to him about DH and I still not conceiving and we have been trying for over a year. He asked if my cycles are regular I said yes about 32 days. He didn't really like that he feels like I am ovulating either too late or not at all. I thought it was ok cause its pretty consistent. I told him I OPK and BBT, but this month has been all over the place. Told him I was taking the red raspberry leaf. he said it wont hurt to take it, it just might not help it. He wants hubby to take in a sperm sample and if I don't conceive this month he wants me to go in on CD2 or 3 to take a test to check my eggs. then he wants to see me on day 23 to check to see if I ovulated. He said we might just need to take a supplement to speed up ovulation. if not then we will go from there.

on a related note when I told him about the opks, and I only got one that was super close to positive. He told me don't really rely on them cause they are wrong more times then they are right. if its close it could be a surge or something else well made me feel a little better but then I was like should I even do this anymore. LOL
I probably will cause I like to have some kind of satisfaction.

this is the month and I wont have to go thru that but if I do then I do.

how is everyone else doing this morning?