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So sorry for ur loss. I know how bad it feels. What I "learned" from these M/Cs was, that I CAN get pregnant and soon will be again!
It is very common thing actually, more then 25% of early pregnancies end this way and it is a natural thing. Women have lots of defective eggs or it could have been a faulty sperm. It is natures "birth control"
I know it wont make it easier right away, but at least its not ur fault.
After a positive test (that will stick) all pain will go away!

After first loss I conceived on 3rd try (1st child) and now after another M/C we succeeded on second try!

Baby dust and sticky vibes!

I am sorry for you're loss. I know you're pain.
I had a miscarriage 1/13/12 at 8 weeks and 1 day.
It was a painful day and still is for me.
I held my tiny baby's baby in the palm of my hand. That day has change how feel and how I look at things much differently.
I know I will never complain about pregnancy while being pregnant because that lets me know that I am still pregnant and it could be worse by losing another child.
I wish I had words of wisdom how you can get through this difficult time in you're life but I can't. The only advice I can offer is take day by day.
If you need to cry then cry, if you need someone to talk too then open up to someone you trust.
You could also go to grief counseling to help you through the emotions of you're loss.
There are other ways for you to heal as well, you could on the EDD to release a balloon with a letter tied to it addressed to you're angel baby.
You could go to build-a-bear and make a teddy bear special for the baby you lost.
I hope I helped you even if it is in a small way.

I am so sorry for the loss you've just experienced. I just miscarried my baby as well. It is the most heart breaking thing to go through. However there is a silver lining, you CAN get pregnant and will again when ur ready! Let ur family and boyfriend be there for you, he lost the baby too. We are all here for you. Nothing we say will replace or make the pain go away but u r not alone and we understand the pain, anger,alone and heartbreak ur feeling. Hugs!