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im hoping for a may baby too because July ill be getting married. tracking bbt and not fertility drug might go buy some lubricant. because ive notice no matter how much water I drink I don't have enough cm.

Thank you ladies! It's so hard but so grateful to have you all. The wild oats didnt make it to the house before we had to leave but he was able to BD! Thanks goodness. I forgot my thermometer so this morning I didnt get to check my temp. I think I will O on Monday, if I O on CD 15 like I did last cycle.

Welcome agamerswife!! Other bride in the group. Yay!

Hey ladies!!

@bug I am sorry that you guys are struggling. It will get better just be patient. Congrats on finding the venue though!!!

Fingers crossed for everyone else!!! We are just bding and waiting to see what happens. I never O the same time so just going to keep bding at least every other day until I confirm O or AF starts.

Good luck!!

Ladies I am struggling today. I just found out that one of my good friends is pregnant again!! They already have three kiddos and she was even on the Copper IUD. They were not trying at all!! She just happened to get pregnant and of course she is very healthy. They are due in January with another little boy.

I am just so heartbroken that she felt she couldn’t say anything to me since she knows we have been trying for so long. Plus I had to find out through Facebook. I just wish it would happen for me too. I am happy for them but still sad that it just hasn’t happened for us yet. Just feeling so down and discouraged already. Not even made it to O and I just feel out of it for the month.

Sorry for the venting but just needed to tell someone else who understands.

@Shay sorry your friend thought you weren’t strong enough to hear her good news. Some people just don’t know how to approach situations like this without feeling like they are being insensitive.
@Gamer Welcome! Congrats on your upcoming wedding. Sounds exciting! Baby dust to you!
I’m CD9 today, so I’ll start temping tomorrow and temp for a week to see if I can confirm O. Our kitchen remodel has not been going well. It’s been one roadblock after another. Looks like it is going to take at least another week. My work week is so busy as well as back to school things to do for the kids. I’m exhausted just thinking about tomorrow being Monday.

Momma that sounds like a pain. Why can’t things just be simple when you want them to be? AFM temps are still real low so that’s a good thing hoping to see a spike soon. Cycle day 17 today and still no O so hopefully some time soon. Been BDing every other day just so we don’t miss it.

How’s everyone doing? Anyone else feel like they need a break from life? Lol. I’m exhausted. I was so out of it this morning I forgot to temp again. Don’t know if I should even bother this month or just go with the flow and see what happens.

Hey ladies. I got my very strong positive OPK today. We BD this afternoon after I have been begging since Sunday night.
Hes taking the Wild Oats but it's not helping as fast as my mom and sis says it does but they inform me it was the liquid form and not pill form. So thinking about getting him the liquid form.

Well, I would say tomorrow will be 1dpo. Here's to hoping for a May baby.

Bug I am glad you got your positive opk!!! I think I am ovulating today as well lol my temps are low but I have had sharper pains on my left side and some spotting!! I have only had spotting at O once or twice before. I am only cd16 which is early O for me but I am happy if it does!!
We have been bding every day the last couple of days including today. So if O is today or even tomorrow or yesterday we have our bases covered!! Still crossing my fingers and staying hopeful!! We are going to continue with the bding until I confirm O with temps or af shows. We will see how I feel.
Good luck ladies!!! I am really trying to stay positive and hopeful!!

Bug and Shay I’m crossing my fingers for you to catch that egg! Sounds like you have both timed BDing well so it could be it!!

I’m CD13 and should get a positive OPK tomorrow or the next so I’ll be close to you ladies in the TWW!