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TTC is hard. I'm sorry to hear you won't be around. Good luck with moving forward with other things, it sounds like you have a lot going on.
I don't mean this to sound condescending, but you are young and have time up your sleeve to come back when you are ready. I was 21 when I fell pregnant with my first and there are so many things I wish I had done before having kids. You have a lot of great things happening and I wish you so much luck with all of it. I hope when you are ready to come back you get your BFP quickly. I know if Im still around I will be stalking!

Are you just not wanting to be pregnant at all? Why not just let what happens happen? It might take a year to get pregnant, it took me 4 years. That will be a year that your hormones can adjust to being off the pill. Unless you really just don't want another one right now if it were to happen sooner rather than later.

My girlfriend had been trying off/on for over a year. Finally the month where she was the most busiest she’d ever been in awhile... she conceived and she wasn’t charting or anything at that point. She even waited like 2 weeks after a no show on AF and she’s currently almost 11 weeks& she’s still in shock and she laughing says “I didn’t even know we did the bd that month” her mind was just in a different place. So just a reminder anything can happen!!

At this point, no, we decided now is not the best time to get pregnant (hence the birth control) I’m starting a new job, we’re doing a ton of traveling soon, we have our wedding coming up, we’re buying a house soon and so all that considered, having a baby right now would really push things back. Would I love to Have a baby? Of course! Would I be upset if we got pregnant on accident? Of course not! But I think in the end, a nice house, plentiful, stable finances, and two married parents will be what’s best for our child! I hope this addresses all your comments! Hoping to be back in a year or so!! Baby dust to all of you!!