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Hey pearl did you do the inplantation calculator on here to see how common the day is see if it all adds up fingers crossed xx

@MidnightMystery. That doesn't sound weird at all. You are a cervix checker, is it open or is it closed? I remember after I had my baby and have been trying for #2 that my dates have been all over the place. I used to be a strictly a 28-day cycle and now the dates varies from 24-28 so it makes it really hard to pinpoint ovulation and timing.

Happy Thanksgiving to all the US ladies in here! This is my favorite holiday of all. I just love all the family time and seeing cousins and just plain having a day together without an agenda.

I started with my OPKs today! The package said to wait until CD10 but I went with CD9 instead as my cycles vary month to month about 2 days or so. I'm using the Clear Blue Digital ones. I got just a empty circle today, as I expected. I'll do it everyday now and wait for the smiley faces.

@ dragonfly - I'm not sure of that medication for colds. Did you try do any research online about it and ovulation? Also, with men sometimes they don't know what to say. I think they often thinking listening and their presence will help our anxiety go away. For me that does help sometimes and other times I need constructive conversation to help. When I need that I have to come out and say it and usually I get the support I need when I do that.

@sheriskers - So excited for you!! A summer baby for sure.

@Pearl - I hope the spotting is implantation!!! Keep us posted.

@dragonfly Its closed id say although its not tightly closed due to my son only being few days shy of 5months boy how time flies when your having fun lol. 24-28 it does get tricky doesnt it i wouldnt mind if it was a day difference lol suppose nothings supposed to be easy aye! X

@FlamingoGirl13. Thank you! I have done some research but they all talk about while you are pregnant, which doesn't help me to say the least. IMO, I think it will be fine as long as it doesn't prolong ovulation as it should be any day now as I had a ton of stretchy cm this morning. I just don't want it to affect BDing in the next couple of days as I am worried that it will wipe me out all together. Hoping my OPK will finally show a "yes" instead of a "no". Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

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Checked cervix its gone soft however pale pink discharge when checking sorry tmi so i think the witch may well be on her way :(

Sorry ladies youl end up being sick of me i apologise for posting alot just really dont have anyone to have this discussion with!

So as above i posted i checked my cervix so i thought id play around with the implantation calculater...

I used two dates due to not knowing so 1st i put cycle length to my usual cycle wich is 26days and it said implantation occur around 17thnov

I then done the cycle length of my last cycle 33days and it said most common being todays date.

Now im in two minds either the pinkish discharge could be implantation this is wishful thinking :( or its the start of my cycle i suppose time will tell. X

@MidnightMystery. No TMI is too much. I don't know too much about implantation and the cervix as last cycle I had brown discharge and cervix was open and then a couple days it closed up. Someone on here may have better insight if the cervix opens to let any blood out (Implantation/AF).

@ Dragonfly lil update still no sign of AF so have no idea what the pinkness was x

SIGH... AF has come. I was completely fooled this month because I never get early cramps or spotting before she shows. I'm going to call my doctor today and schedule an appt and see if maybe chlomid is the way to go. I think I wouldn't be able to start until next month so for December we'll just keep trying. Looks like I'm on to September babies but I'll be checking back in. I hope you ladies all get BFP's!! Baby dust to everyone