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dsinha1011,

If anyone can understand how you feel i think it's the girls here, we are here because we are struggling to have a baby, something that has been given so easily to other women.
I am so petrified of getting negative results, i'm afraid that i'm going to go crazy. It's that "WHY???". And what know?? What do i do know?

But i'm writing to comment on your very sad post. It's not about you not having a baby, it's sad to hear you are having these feelings about DH. All i want to say is that if he is not the one for you, then it's just as well you didn't stay pregnant with the guy you can't stand being married to. I hope this is not the case and it's the devastation you have and that you have to find somebody to express it. Even if this is the case it's such a pity to ruin your relationship because of this. You and DH should have your little warm nest ready in order for your baby to say "ok, now it's time for me to show up".

I'm sorry if i'm saying too much, i feel emotional writing all this, i myself have done huge struggles to build my relationship with DH, which get's better everyday, but our nest is still empty and i feel there is nothing i can do about it and i hate the idea that we'll end up blaming and hating each other.

As for me 15dpiui today, all hpts negative. Period symptoms and swollen breasts fading away. I guess i was healthy and now not even i didn't stay pregnant but something is also wrong with my period.

I hope we all recover from our failed attempts and find the strength to keep trying.

AshyDee last cycle I was convinced I was pregnant. I get tender breast a few days before af but I had strange nipple tenderness that I never had before so i though ok I must be pregnant. Also I thought I was having fatigue and implantation pain. Turned out I was wrong when af came. It was a huge disappointment especially to my dh. I told him I thought for sure I was. I even tested everyday starting from 8dpo. What a waste! So this time I am just acknowledging what could be a symptom and moving on. I log it in my head as a 50 50 chance of it being something or nothing and I move on. I refuse to let myself get my hopes up too high this time. But I am hoping for a bfp More than anything.
So far I could say that at 6dpo I've had bloating, tender breast, twinge like cramps here and there, and just today some acne showed up. Hopefully it's all do to me becoming pregnant but I won't know until I get that bfp.
It was fun logging everything and trying to catch symptoms. Maybe I'll stop being so worried of disappointment and pick it up again.

18 dpo today...havent tested for 2 days, was assuming would be here by now. I keep thinking maybe I ovulated on 5dpo (I had stretchy eggwhite cm). Either way....I just want to move on to next cycle already Think tomorrow I will buy one last FRER to settle my mind, maybe if my brain accepts that I am not pregnant, my body will too.

Think I am 20 dpo (according to ff anyways). However...my temps were very erratic and taken within various times. I had EWCM on '5dpo'. So I have been thinking all month I could be off on my O day. Last night I had a very small amount of spotting. Then NOTHING. Nothing all night not a drop or sign all day. IF I ovulated late.. This could have been IB!! Either way (period or IB) just glad my body is working on doing "something"! Better than limbo.

Hope you guys don't mind me joining, second month TTC! I'm new to this, I have been having horrible headaches since ovulation. I'm about 8dpo. I don't have any sore breast which I usually always have. Anyone else having weird symptoms they don't usually have?

Hey ladies! Can I join? I'm 7/8dpo. Ttc #2 for the last 15 months!
DD only took 4 months as we conceived after a miscarriage.
This time round I have had two early losses and my heart is in pieces. Just longing for a sibling for my 3.5yr old daughter.
Any way weird temps this cycle!
Here's hoping and praying! ***baby dust to all***

I'm 10 dpo, and considering my temps, I'm not even sure I ovulated at all. All of them are really weird. I dipped when I should've dipped, but overall, my temps never really raised much compared to other cycles. Kept pretty steady.

Also never got a positive OPK. Got one almost positive one at CD 6 or something when I was merely trying to get a baseline but it just got lighter after that. Either I ovulated WAY early and was catching the back half decreasing part of the surge, or I didn't ovulate at all.

Weird month. Plus, I don't feel preggers at ALL. Hopefully January will be a better month. Good luck girls!

Everyone that got a negative , I am sorry , have some wine and FX next month

Calvin girl it is really weird month , I think for most of people

I don t know if I ovulated neither or yet. I have been observing my CM and I have had watery CM for more than a week now and no sign or EWCM. Maybe I missed it , I don t know.

Moving on to September ladies.

Hello ladies how are you doing?

I cannot believe it is almost the end of the year. Anyone testing soon?

I have stopped checking my CM and I won t bother testing neither for at least another week or so if AF doe snot show. Very doubtful I ovulated.