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SuperMom...I see it! Hope it is still there and darker when you test again!

Super mom OMG kitties are so cutes. But they are big destroyer. Smart move not to get one. We got ours on black friday late at night after convincing DH for one before his bday in dec ( we never get one before his bday lol not any xmas decoration or music). Anyway we were driving somewhat late that Friday and got a crazy deal for $20 6ft tall. It was an awesome post Thanksgiving deal.
About my cycle, yeah they can get pretty long. I was doing up 35 days when AF showed on her own. But this last one I waited up to.45 days and I had to take Provera. So yeah i am actually on CD 13 i got it wrong yesterday and yeah i will start observing my CM this weekend but I am not expecting any ovulation until at least 7-10 days. The other thing I am going back to is drinking at least a cup of tea.a day, silver needle.preferably. Also I will be adding grape juice and reduce my glasses of wine.

This cycle blows.

13 DPO today. FRER=stark white

Feeling on her way. Extremely depressed and weepy over all of it. I wanted it to happen SO bad this month. I know that even a rainbow baby wouldnt have made up for the one I should have been expecting on Christmas...but getting a would have been the only thing to make my angels due date just a little less hard.

So I am the official grinch this year. Theres no snow (in Wisconsin in December!!), there will be no baby, and I just want nothing to do with a soul. All I want to do on my angels "birthday" is to lock myself in a room and not have to put on a fake smile for all the family and friends during our holiday festivities. I dont want a single effing gift even...I just want my baby.

I'm out. The witch got me this evening.
I'm sorry Avaan. If that's what you feel you need to do to help yourself grieve, then do it! Never hold back your pain hun.

for everyone else left.

Sorry to those who AF showed up for.

I took a test at 12 dpo, which was Friday. It was negative. Yesterday I was feeling out. It felt like AF was definitely on her way. I decided that I was going to take a bit of a break from TTC.

But right now I am feeling some odd pressure and cramps in my lower abdomen, which is not normal for me. And I am having shooting pain in my breasts. So now I am thinking maybe I am not completely out. Going to test when I wake up. That would put me at 14dpo. Kind of scared to test. I really don't want it to be negative. I may just break down this time.

avaann: My heart goes out to you dear! I am so sorry you are having such an emotional upheaval. I do agree with SuperMom2. You should take a break from relatives, if you think that is what you need. I am sure they will understand. Or DH and you could take a vacation or a trip... disappear and go far away from relatives and other things... I hope you are able to make peace with these emotions and have the strength and courage to move on! In my bio class, we keep studying in genetics and other chapters that spontaneous abortion/miscarriages are God's way to prevent unviable children being brought into the world... like babies with chromosomal problems. We need to keep that in mind that may be it wasn't the right time or there was a bigger reason for that to have happened. I know it is easier said than done. You are still not out... not until the witch arrives... May be you will get your soon! Try to stay positive and as my doc says, "Pretend to be pregnant"... believe in the power of mind!!! <Sorry for the long post> You can message me anytime if you need someone to talk to!

SuperMom2: I am so sorry arrived. I hope you get your next month. Try to relax with some wine, nice music, candles and a warm bath!

jeskalillis: We are cycle buddies. I am 14 dpo today with 13 dpiui. we get our tomorrow.

AFM: I had the worst cramp of my life last two days. My back, lower tummy and legs were in excruciating pain for hours and hours. I literally had heating pad on all day. They have gone today. I just feel super sleepy and exhausted. I tested today with ICs. I saw a faint partial line on one of them like half an hour after. It was barely there. Planning to poas tomorrow morning... bought FRER today. I hope this is it.

for everyone testing and hope you all get your soon! All those waiting to ovulate, happy !
Lots and lots of to everyone!!!

Nothing to say except sorry to those who had the ugly witch show up. Please know we are praying that we still get blessed with babies and that you are not alone if you need to rant you can rant to us. I think the holidays bring extra stress always.

I'm 3dpo and I really want this cycle to be the one.
Anyone else at the beginning of their wait?

Update:
My last AF showed up November 5th...I'm 17dpo. Well, as you know I was supposed to test this weekend. It was another BFN. This is my first cycle off birth control and I'm not exactly sure when I ovulated last month. (I will definitely use ovulation tests next cycle).
So I guessed that AF was due December 3....AF didnt show up that day and BFN.....but then tonight (December 6th) I started spotting....AF like cramps. The spotting and mild cramps have currently stopped...completely. What the heck is this? So confused. Was that AF? We shall see I guess. I wish my body could decide what its doing so I can at the least start the next cycle. I see my doctor tomorrow...hopefully he can help me figure out how to navigate this TTC journey for me. Feeling impatient...

To those who had AF show up...best of luck to all of you next cycle. Sending baby dust your way!

Hi ladies I got my bfp last week then a day after I started spotting
It got a bit darker the day after so I got concerned and called my doc
He called emerg for me so things go faster I went in and they did a urine
Pregnancy test and blood work also an ultrasound the ultrasound was good the doc saw the sac and was happy and said I'm gonna put you in bed rest
But once the blood reports came in he told me my hcg level is too low and that he's sorry it's an early but as soon as I got home I rested a few hours the spotting completely stopped and I retested and pregnancy test was even darker! The next day tested again even darker so I'm going to see my doc tomorrow please pray that my hcg has risen and my bean is ok
I'm having morning sickness my nipples are aching so mostly all pregnancy
Symptoms

Prayer to you and your bean sunflower82!

MommaTodd this was my first cycle with ovulation test and I highly recommend using them. It takes loads off of you. But I also recommend taking you bbt and checking cm and position. Best of luck to you!