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I feel the exact same way!! My husband and I have been trying for 9 months and there has been at least 5 of those months I had a late period, what I thought was pregnancy symptoms, even take a test, then wake up the next morning and AF arrives!! My husband and I don't have any children yet and we have been together over 12 years. We have been together since I was in the 8th grade and we wanted to wait until we were ready because my husband is in the military and we have been through 3 deployments, and now it just isn't happening. I never thought we would have this problem, and everyone tells me not to stress out, but how can I not stress over this? I went to the doctor had blood work done, everything checked out normal and healthy so I am hoping this is the month! AF is supposed to arrive the day after my birthday next Thursday, and I wouldn't really like this as a birthday present!!! Good luck to everyone else out there!!

What is totally funny is a know of more than a few of my friends that conceived once they stopped "trying." ;) I will hope this for both you ladies. :D good luck and its def. good to take a break every once in a while and start having fun again. Good luck ladies!

Glad to know I'm not alone! I posted something similar on another site and everyone was SUPER positive. Telling me maybe I wasn't ovulating yet, etc, etc. NO! I'm just tired of the disappointment! I was 12 days late last month. Had every symptom. Even went to the doc for a blood test and ultrasound. Wasted money and time all for AF to start. I was thinking about names already. DH and I were talking about the possibility of moving into a bigger home.
I have 2 boys and am starting to think that's enough. If nothing happens in 6 months, I might just be done. All the anticipation is killing me. It's as if I live a month at a time. And then the two week wait is terrible.