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lammy - hope things turn out well for you.

thank you

i think ive just come to the point where i just want answers i still have some hope i could be preg i wont rule it out till i see the scan for myself ive had some very strange things happen lately and i believe they are a sign if not then i will be asking alot of questions and the main one " can i have kids "

i wont be online for a little while as busy atm but will try to keep u updated when i can xxx

As if this weekend didn't start out with enough of an emotional roller coaster, hubby decided to inform me this morning that he still thinks I'm probably preg. I was like, where was this revelation yesterday when I needed it??? Anyway, I've decided to just leave it alone, for & & just keep on going. I'll let y'all know more when there's more to tell. Until then

waitingonmymiracle - thank you so much, will post an update on Monday. I seen u sayin about those painful cramps, I had them too on wednesday. They actually nearly took my breath away, was at my sisters graduation and had to grab the person in front of me's chair.... Got some funny looks!

Soooo, ok, seriously.....lets just go off statistics here and say that the tube tying will not have a effect......Here is a more solid list of symptoms that I have been experieincing since Sunday
Weird bubbly feelings
Heartbeat like feeling when lying on back can actually feel a stead heartbeat (probably y own) but I dont even have to touch to feel it
Bad back pain, lower and upper, depending on standing or sitting
Milk when squeezed
Breast are tender
Bloating
Irriatable defintaly, very mad very quick and get very annoyed really quickly, and very moody.
Some contipation, but stomach flutters are there after using the bathroom
Moddswings, can be happy, and then pissed off in a blink
not hungry, Im not one o throw up and never had morning sickness....but I dont want to eat anything until later in the day, and If I do eat, I end up looking at the food like its going to attack me, and get a little quesy
Very tired....could sleep all day
Cant sit up straight for long periods of time
Anxiety
Cant focus....
and if that isnt enough, I have almost passsed out twice since Sunday....and laid down last night and even though I was laying down the room felt liek it was moving and felt like I was dizzy or not there
Now....problem is that Im not really sure when the last period started but I know it was early and it only last at thee most 3 days and I think thats even pushing it, and we had intercourse during which normally doesnt happen.
Blood and urine tests at this point are negative, however, I am early to check.....and I also have a very faint slight pain in the pelvic aread ????

aprincessa - Just try not to obsess too much if possible. I have lactated since I was about 14 or 15 and been tested for everything that can cause it, and there is no medical explanation for mine. The only time I didn't lactate was during my pregnancies. If you don't get a positive result soon, go to the doctor, and approach them about the milk production instead of about a possible pregnancy. As long as they don't propose testing that could cause harm if you are pregnant, do the testing. Also remember your mind can influence your body, and some of the symptoms of an imagined or deeply wished for pregnancy are very real. Everyone writing posts on here has been convinced of a pregnancy that wasn't there at some point or another. You may or may not be pregnant. I would caution you not get too attached to the idea of being pregnant until you get some validation of your pregnancy - for your mental health. Lots of people who have had tubal ligation do end up getting pregnant, so you might be. If you haven't yet, you should read up on other causes of lactation to see if your symptoms are similar to those, and get in to see the doc again once you review them. Ectopic pregnancies are more common with the type of birth control you chose, too, so don't let it go too long before you get checked out. Good luck!

It seems as though I may have been off when judging when AF should be flying in...or was I??? Not sure but if so she should be arriving tomorrow which happens to be my birthday So my day could either be very happy or the extreme opposite. I have to say i'm very nervous for tomorrow to get here, first instinct is to get up and take a test but i'm going to try and wait it out at least until the morning of the 10th. We shall see ladies.........

aprincessa--I don't mean to scare you or anything, but if you suspect you may be pregnant, I would get in to a doctor ASAP. IIRC, having had your tubes tied means it's more likely that any pregnancy to occur afterward would be ectopic. Again, I don't mean to scare you, but I think it's worth a call to your doctor just to be sure. There have been post-tubal pregnancies that were just fine, but if it were me I'd want to get checked out just to be safe. :)

aprincesa - you said you went for a blood test, right? Did they do an exam or sonogram to make sure you don't have a tubal r other form of ectopic?

Good evening girls!!!!! Sunday has come and gone and still ! Hmm? Should I be happy or disappointed? lol Sheesh! So tomorrow I'm going to test with fmu and no matter what the answer is I'm going to call the doctor and stand firm! I know that they want me to do the progesterone challenge but if I wanted withdrawal bleeding I'd go back on my birth control. They can figure everything out with a blood test anyways. I'm going to stress that my sister has PCOS so they may be more willing to exam me for that. Are you ladies becoming bored with hearing my blabbing with no BFP? LOL.

@aprincessa17-I'm still holding out hope that your pregnant but like the other ladies...I'm worried if you have something else going on. Please call the doctor.

@jasmine-I get sharp pains from time to time. My family doesnt know we're trying so I try to hide the looks of pain LOL! My mom gets nervous if I have a headache so I have to really hide pain around her. Otherwise she'll bug me til I give in and tell her! LOL

Happy Early Birthday Alisha!!! Praying for your on Tuesday!!!!

Good night ladies. I'll talk to you in the morning!