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Aww, I am so sorry it was a negative! I have never seen a positive. DH & I have been trying for "our" 1st for 16 cycles now. He has 2 from a previous marriage. It is so heart breaking every time you see the BFN and after you get all the symptoms to where you swear is not normal PMS symptoms. I personally would save your 2nd test for at least a few days. If you are on 14 DPO then chances are AF will show tonight or tomorrow. If she doesn't show by Sunday or Monday then use the other test. Hang in there!

I will try lol i know its not going to be easy!! But i guess iys the best thing, that way i give it time to double if i am, and if im not then time for af to show up! Ah its just this TWW is horrible!!! I i know the feeling on trying so long, i triednfor my first DD for 4 years... 48 cycles i think that is...? It was very stressful, what i do know is that the cycle i finally decided i was going to take a break and focus on me (i have very large breasts and i wanted to work on getting a reduction) and i ended up pregnant, and the weird thing is i said that this month, i was like whatever happens happens so i go to the doctor and start the process for my reduction again and now all these symptoms and the faint lines on the other tests and now the not pregnant its all too overwhelming :'(