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I think that's the hard part for me. Husband is completely on board, but as horrible that it sounds he doesn't care either way. If it happens he'd be thrilled, but if it didn't it would really only bother him that I would be upset. He's not one of those men that it would fill a need, not to mention he already has 2 daughters from when he was younger. On a plus note, everything would still pretty much be a first since up until 2 years ago he didn't see his daughters since they were about 1 & 2 (not by his choice) I try not to stress but it's hard since I'm 36, and he's 42. I've had tons of tests and they've all come back fine, honestly I think it's his stress level from work but who knows until I get him to take tests.

Ladies. 2 tests BFN :( one last night, one this morning first response 6 days sooner BUT my cervix is getting higher? Still have quite a bit of CM feeling crampy bloated and MOODY! I am praying my butt off! Just have to trust God. That's so hard sometimes. Blessings!

Fingers crossed for you. The waiting gam sucks lol

I talked to my husband last night about seeing a specialist so I'll b setting that up this week

Hope he was responsive to it! I hope you get some answers.

Morning BFN this morning on family dollar test. Seems like my temp is getting higher though. Still not feeling prego though. I read boy fetuses may take longer for the hcg to be detected. I've seen so any people on here with faint lines I was hopeful but seems a lot of people don't get their BFP tell after AF is due. Off to church! I will pray for you ladies!

Sorry I have been so busy this week! Hey for rise in temp Comeonbaby! That is a good sign! I hope you get your BFP
dirtybirdsoaps I am sorry AF showed but yay hubby is on board, good luck!

Hoping for a BFP comeonbaby! A lot of women never have symptoms till later on......maybe your one of them ????

Filled out the paperwork online Saturday for the specialist, hopefully all goes well. They say they'll usually call within 1-2 days. My only issue is according to their website they have a female dr but when you read up on them she's never mentioned only one dr which is a man. I am DEFINITELY one of those women that refuses to see a man so my fingures are crossed that she practices there still. If not, I'll most like,y have to find one out of town. First thing is to get him tested. I've done basic tests.....labs, HSG, ultrasound all fine. I know there's more tests I can do but I know they will want a SA on him and he just doesn't want to here he's the problem....what man does? I think I made it worse when he was joking and said if he wasn't broken.....I responded with " they might be slow" wellllll that didn't sound any better lol honestly I think it's his stress level which I have NO CLUE how to fix that. He has a very high stress job.

comeonbaby- great signs girl! How many DPO are you now? Temp staying high is a VERY positive sign!!! Keep us posted!

DBS- how about having him relax like having him do a massage or acupuncture!? Acupuncture has proven to reduce stress levels, I actually go myself and attribute my first baby to acupuncture!
If you can get him to do a SA even better just to see where you're at. Tell him it's just one more thing to check off that you guys are good! Spin it in a positive way instead of negative.

Thedjinn- you close to ovulating yet?
I took a digital the one that detects estrogen with a blinking smiley face and today it was blinking!! Last cycle I had 3 days of the blinking before it actually showed steady... it may be like that again.. who knows!!

My chart has me ovulating on CD 24 because my chart is triphasic now it didn't pick up my actual ovulation day because of the time change I am guessing. But I am 12dpo still getting BFN having crazy dreams now but feeling out. Had some cramps last night. Just a few more days!

miracle80 I have some time before I ovulate, I just finally got off my period, but we are not going to be trying this month, or next month most likely. My mom's doctors apt didn't go how we were hoping so we might hold off a few months before trying right now.

dirtybirdsoaps I hope its a female so you can get started, and maybe find relaxing things for the hubby to do? My husband is always stressed out I swear, and when trying to make a baby and thinking it might be you, I am sure is way stressful too.

Comonbaby! I hope you get a BFP here soon!