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Im so sorry for all the crap youve been through. Sounds like you have been to Hell and back. 3 years is a long time to go through this pain and misery. Again im so sorry for what your going through. Ive been ttc for about a year with no luck and it has been painful dealing with the let down after every failed cycle. No one should have to go through all this crap to get pregnant!

Maybe to save you some heartache dont test till af is late. I know how hard that can be as i start testing at 7dpo myself. I feel your pain and i am so sorry you are having a hard time. {hugs}

@ QuothTheRaven,

Thank you, I pray you get your BFP! too. It's been so hard going thou cycyle after cycle with no BFP. I'm not evening looking forward to it this month being BFP. But I don't want to be negative for you so GOOD LUCK!

@ Mommy1990
Thank you for your comment, I appreciated it! But I refused to but any more HPT's. If AF comes I would know, like I found out all those other months! lol But I wish you luck as well.

Maybe you had a chemical pregnancy.

@ cassorino

Idk, what it was, all I know is that AF came & I got ah BFN.

I just realized how I replyed sounded so insensitive. I am so sorry for the heartache I understand how it feels. I really hope you get your true BFP and a sticky baby soon. :)

@ cassorino

No, no, no it's okay, nothing can hurt my feelings at this point. But you might be right, maybe it was, again idk. This cycle along with the others to come, if it it comes it comes. I'm not spending anymore money trying. I just enjoy reading the success stories from others and try to give advice when I can to this site and share my experiences.

Well a chemical is where you tested before your period was do and it would be positive. Then you have a period when it's do because the implantation wasn't strong enough.

I hope everything turns out the best for you :)