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Idk, hugs xoxox

idk - I'm so sorry you are having such a hard time. Everything we go through to get pregnant takes such a toll emotionally, and then to have a loss on top of that it sometimes can feel like too much. Take the time you need to cry, and vent that helps a lot.
I don't know if you know God but either way He is the ONLY reason I got through my miscarriage. Lots of prayer, crying and acting like a total crazy person lol. If you ever need to talk you can PM me!

AFM - I'm 9 or 10 dpo.. to be honest I'm not completely sure. I'm leaning towards 9dpo. I feel next to nothing right now, except I can't seem to stay out of the bathroom I have (TMI ALERT!) peed more times than I count. I feel like i have been in there every 20 minutes. Anyway my boobs feel huge and they look sort of veiny. Also I normally start feeling PMS type cramps by this time and I had some crampyness yesterday but nothing today. Again trying not to read too much into any "symptom". I think I may test Thursday morning since I have a doctors appointment with a new doctor to discuss future pregnancies.

Team I'm so glad that your SMU was dark. I wish you all the best of luck!

TTClate30's are you taking progesterone as well? I was told to start using it once I knew I was pregnant. I'm wondering if I should start taking it after I know that I have ovulated.

IDK I'm so sorry to hear that you are having such a rough time. I think that sometimes having a major meltdown cry fest is called for and helps relieve some of the stress and tension. Hugs!

Have a question ladies...going crazy all day I have been having this weird I don't know pain or pinch
cramp twinge lol I don't know like above my pelvic bone area and sometimes I feel it on my right side near Ovary. Could it be. Nooooo to soon right? And my tummy a bit tender. I swear I don't know if I am.making this happen. So hard I hate this wait. It's a bitch isn't it...ahhhh and my tracker I think is off I am either 4 or 5 dpo. It says Friday last week but I think it was more like wed.

Helly-yes I am taking it. The RE told me to start taking it at 4 DPO.

Idk- thanks! I wanst sure how king the swimmers would last after being washed. And I don't think I can even get pregnant through regular intercourse. But we will see in about 5 days!

I just discovered yellow cm. Fx lol I'm so obsessed it's crazy ah man some say pg sign others say af..that didn't help.

mama2twins - Yellow CM could be a good sign! I get it with and without pregnancy.

Jessyann - It's so easy to drive yourself crazy over every tiny thing, right?! Hang in there.

nharty - Not sure on the swimmers. I deal with the same issue the day after BD and I'm never sure how to chart my CM.

idk - So sorry for all of the stress. Sending you big hugs from Texas. As a fellow SAHM I completely get how crazy it can be. Feel free to PM if me if you ever need to vent.

Kelley - Go get you some more yarn! Hang in there.

AFM - CD11. I meant to start taking OPKs yesterday but the afternoon was crazy. Long story short, I started getting chest pain and pain in my jaw around noon yesterday. By 3:30 I was extremely lightheaded and my jaw was numb. Drove myself to the ER and they immediately did an EKG, took blood, x-rays. All came back fine. It's probably anxiety attacks from stress. Thanks to my DH's crazy family. Doc gave me a few pills of Lorazepam, and as much as I love anti-anxiety meds, they aren't the best for baby making. Will have to figure something out, and soon. Blah.

Ginabee....try a massage or long hot bath. I know you probably don't have time...BUT make time.

TCC looks like you and I will be testing about the same time. I am planning to test on 2/23 if temp stays up? U?

Gina - I know how much anxiety sucks. Unfortunately, I have to take meds or I wouldn't be able to function at all. If there's one thing I've been reminded of this week it's that you really do have to put yourself first every once in awhile. I hope you're able to figure out what will be most helpful for you. PM me if you need to talk!

Thank you everyone for your support. I was able to "take the day off" yesterday. I took my girls to my SIL at 1:00 and then left it up to my DH to pick them up, feed them and get them to bed. I grabbed some lunch and watched my favorite movie, then went shopping and finally went to the library until after I knew the girls were in bed. It was very relaxing and exactly what I needed. I feel so much more like myself again.

Just for kicks and giggles, I came across this ecard yesterday: Dear Children, I only take credit for your first 9 months. After that you were exposed to your father.

I plan on testing 23rd day before expected period. I'm.Not doing the torment of testing to early. I have no idea about temps. Still above my Coverline Though

I to face anxiety. About two years ago had my first panic attack. About a year ago doc gave me low dose of xanax. That helped so much.