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TTC~ did u test? :) was it darker?

TTC, I'm so sorry to hear this :( I pray the test this morning was bad/wrong and Monday brings a surprise.

Shan-my line from Thursday must have still been the trigger because there was nothing today

TTC~ I'm so sorry :/

TTC - I'm so sorry! This process really isn't
fair sometimes. It sucks! Hang in there. Maybe
your husband will change his mind. Maybe he just
needs a little break. I know my husband feels
Inadequate sometimes especially when he can't
make it better for me.

I will be 40 in a couple weeks. He hasn't had to do much in this. I've had all the procedures, miscarriages, testing, etc. but the real reason he wants to give up is the RE is cutting us off iui's and IVF is too expensive. The iui's have been a financial burden enough. Sex does not equal babies for us. The 2 pregnancies we have had were both with advanced measures. But we will see what the re says Monday

TTC - I'm so sorry. I was hoping for good news today. I really hope that the RE has another option for you.

Sorry TTC. I was really wishing that you would get your BFP.

AF finally showed up for me, after I took a HPT that was negative this morning. She is kicking my butt so far. Been so tired, and slept just about all day...but I am relieved, because I can now start this new process.

I do have a question though. If I get my period later in the day, is that considered day 1. Or will I count tomorrow as day 1? I just woke up from a nap and went in to use the bathroom and saw I was bleeding. It is 7 pm on Saturday. So would I say Saturday is day 1 or Sunday?

Sorry probably a stupid question, but I need to know to make sure I do what I need to on the right days.

My RE says if it's before 5:03 then call it day one. Also, it has to be full flow, not spotting

Thanks...I don't think he will other than IVF though. I'm really depressed. I thought I would be saying goodbye on this board by moving on to the pregnancy side. This really blows

Jesk, my clinic says day one is considered when you have full flow by noon. I'm sorry AF is such a harsh witch!

TTC, since your DH is ok with IVF (if I read this correctly) but the money is the issue, have you checked into financing options? Does your insurance cover any of the process at all? I'm sure you've probably checked into everything possible but I wanted to ask.