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Hey mel sorry to hear about your struggles it must be really tough hopefully yor upcoming cycle is the one!!

I haven't tested but have been thinking I might do one at the end of the week just to make sure but definitely don't have my hopes up!!

Hey ladies sorry I haven't been on for a bit ended up having to go back home to tassie for a funeral... I got a few more .... I was due for AF on the 10th and she didn't show but I keep getting the same result... I think it's safe to say I'm not gonna get a ... And my mother just informs me my sister is gonna have her 3rd child... Great! Don't get me wrong I'm happy for her but it sucks for me.... I hope all everyone else is having better luck than me! xx

Hi Mel, welcome! I'm Jodi from Sydney. Nice to have you here, even though I wish we were all pregnant! :) Sorry to hear your troubles, I've been trying for No. 2 for 3 1/2 yrs, I don't know how you coped ttc for 11 years for your first. Have you looked at ivf for this one at all?

Tamika its so good to hear from you again, I'm sorry to hear you haven't had your bfp yet though. This is really rough isn't it?

Hope all is well. I just realized I'm actually 11dpo not 10. Woo! If only I'd skipped a few more days! Ha. X

Fingers crossed for you secondmiracle!! I hope you get that !!!
I'm 23dpo now so not sure what's going on!

Heya all! sprinkling lots of baby dust and hoping someone will get a bfp! How many days to go Jodi and Tracey? Hope everyone else is doing ok? Its exhausting. time to chill and recover. xxoo

Im doing ok. Just extra busy and tired! Getting all my belongings on wednesday and my cat in nsw. start a new job next wednesday! my boys are coping and doing well in their new school.winning! Baby Steps to Happiness. Bliss!

That awesome Keiralei, glad your doing so well :)

well i fell AF is creeping up on me :( I've had a heavy feeling for days n not a good feeling, didnt test this morning thought i'd leave it for now and just wait for AF instead

Keiralei so great to hear you are doing so well, already have a job and getting everything sorted there! Wow, go you!

Tracey I hope it's not the witch, it's still early for your AF isn't it, going from the strong positive OPK?

Tamika, wow that is really frustrating! Hope you get some answers soon.

Do you go to the doctor today Sam? Let us know how you go.

I'm still waiting, I have my mum staying for the next few days so that will pass the time without tempting me to test. Had a large amount of CM last night and some pressure again but other than that I have no clue. I doubt it very much but I guess there is always hope. x

I normally have 32 day cycle so due in 2 days but if we go by the last opk not due for 5 more days.
I really thought we nailed it !!
Only took the one cycle of bding everyday for 2 weeks in the middle of the cycle with Jett so hoping not too many more cycles with this one !!

hi girls this is a huge rant warning!!

i have had the worst day ever!! i woke up feeling crappy sick tired blah blah.....
went off to work and the usual children started flooding in then.... then came in two children that i hadn't seen from a while and are currently in their grandmothers care as they were taken off their mother because she's a junkie..... today the mother accompanied the grandmother in dropping the children off. i already don't like speaking to her because i feel sorry for her poor children but unfortunately its part of the job. so i do the polite thing hi, how have you been haven't seen you for a while and its clear that she's on some form of drugs even that early in the morning....then i look down and there it was a pregnant belly, would have been at least 5 months...... she noticed i had noticed and in her state she's like oh yeh ignore that its just another one for dhs to take off me before i complete screw it up..... i couldn't say anything but excuse me and i literally went to my office and cried......
i was sent home half an hour later by my assistant who told me she had everything under control (bless her).
its just not fair....... I'm perfectly healthy and have never taken a drug in my life and i can't conceive yet she can...... she doesn't deserve another child let alone the ones she already has...

i did go to the doctors and my doctor is under the impression that i had a chemical pregnancy he too could see my line on the hpt.....just made everything worse...
although he did say no need for the fertility specialist because its clear that you can conceive its just a matter of time to see if one sticks around and then we can talk about fertility specialists but he doesn't think ill need one..... he has also advised me to do a hpt next monday as he agrees the period seems very strange but he said its more than likely just an off cycle which is normal.....

so to sum up my day went from bad to worse... I've literally spent the whole day in bed having a sook =[

thats the end of my rant so on a happier note I'm a little bit excited that we might see some BFPs on here within the next couple of days!!! i hope they fly by for you ladies and i hope to god you get them because you deserve them!!!

Oh Sam I welled up with tears reading your post as I can imagine exactly how you must have felt. Only someone in our positions can understand the pain of seeing a person who abuses their body and can't even care for themselves, pregnant. I'm so so sorry you had to go through that. There really is no justice or fairness that people like her can be so fertile, when loving stable couples can't.
I'm so sorry about your Chemical pregnancy too, what a hellish day for you, and all I can say is I'm sure tomorrow will be better. Sorry to have been pestering about the appointment, I just hoped your doctor would give you some help or advice.
I'm glad you had some time off and I hope you've had that soak in the bath you wanted last week or some other kind of pampering. You certainly deserve that today. *Hugs * X