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I needsomeone to give a little guidance or structure. I'm trying my best not to get my hopes ups nor feed into the fact that my temps been elevating and compare to last cycle they are high compare to cycle days.Af is due tomorrow .

Hey ladies!! how is everyone doing?

Hopeful - I am hanging in there... not much is going on. How are you my dear? Hope that this is your month!!!! :)

Cristi- that was such a sweet thing your friend did for you! That may be the sign that the time is right....

Bama - well that spotting sounds very promising!

AFM - Blood work showed I have a low egg reserve. US showed normal ovaries and Dr. said my uterus was perfect. Next test is HSG in a couple of weeks (after AF makes her visit) and Clomid. She also ordered a SA for DH... I feel sooo bad for him. He was okay with the test but DID NOT like the abstaining for 3-6 days AT ALL!!!! poor guy he is not use to that!! lol

We are headed out to Charleston for the weekend for a little get away... Its suppose to rain all weekend but it doesnt matter getting away will be nice.. I do not think this was my month. My OPK's never got completely positive and they have had dark lines since my cycle started after the CP... BUT the US showed that I may have ovulated on my Left ovary... so who knows? Maybe the opk's just didnt get dark enough but were positive at some point.... we shall see...

I know there has been soo much talk about when to test and testing too early... I admit it is HARD NOT to test ASAP but it is more heartbreaking to test positive and find out it is a CP... I will NOT test until after AF is due anymore. I cant take that heartbreak again. I was holding back tears just sitting in the waiting room at the OB's office there were 10 other women in there and EVERYONE was at least 5 plus months pregnant. I was the ONLY non-pregnant woman there.. :( that and having the US scared me... She took soooooo many pics and it was making me think that she was seeing something wrong.. but at last some good news. As long as DH's SA comes back good we are just in the unexplained category it seems. Maybe clomid will be my miracle pill. I am taking soo many dang vitamins right now...
EPO, COQ10, DHEA, B6, Folic, PN's, and Fish Oil. Whats one more pill at this point. Dr. is also asking for a progesterone level on CD21 of the next cycle... So, unless I get a shocking positive pregnancy test in the next week or so, then I am just waiting for AF to show and then get the show on the road for next cycle....

Still hoping for a shocking bfp for you 35andready because sometimes when we are not obsessing or want something so much to happen, in other words: few expectations, that's when things happen!

1040 - I wish I could offer more help! I know how hard it is to wait to test!

good luck scooby!

afm i am still waiting to ovulate i think...i got my first opk on CD10 and today is CD14 but no clear temp spike yet. last cycle i though i ovulated on CD12 because i got opks so early but i had a temp spike and still positive opks later on and i ovulted around cd16 according to my chart and fertility friend. so i am sticking to everyother day BD and and thinking maybe doubling up days 15 and 16 or 16 and 17 depending on what my temps do. my cervix is definiteyl softer and higher but i am not sure about the open part...could be but might not be that open. using preseed and soft cups and legs in the air ;) and

Thanks jennavee.will check it out.

Scooby - I think you should test again in the morning and see what's going on. Looks like a positive to me, but I had a faint faint line recently (fainter than yours) and it went away. Tomorrow morning should be the same or darker.

1040- If you are due with AF tomorrow, you could go ahead and test. I mean, that would put you at what 13 DPO? If you are really struggling with it, you could test, and then if it's a negative and AF doesn't come, just test again in a couple more days. IDK.... it's hard. But, i feel like at 13 DPO you might be able to see something....

I got a postive OPK test last night and again this afternoon. BD last night and this morning and will again tonight. Fingers crossed!

~K

Not sure what dpo.had 2 possible O date.I just know af due tomorrow Fx!

Good night and good luck everyone TTFN..ta ta for now. ...Fx!

Scooby, send loads of baby dust and sticky vibes! That is a good looking test! :)

Hopeful, thank you and sending lots of prayers and baby dust your way!

35, I am hoping it is a sign! :) I am feeling bad for your hubby... my dh about had the big one when the dr said no sex before his SAs! LOL! Sorry about the blood work, but try and find the positives in it and know that you do have eggs! Sending loads and loads of baby dust your way!

AFM, nothing to report.. just waiting and praying and praying some more! Starting the progesterone suppositories will start tomorrow since my OPKs are now getting lighter we can assume that I have O'ed for sure! This TWW should be an interesting one.

Sending a lot of baby dust, sticky vibes and prayers to you all. Lets get a lot of BFPs this month! Hugs to you all.