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I need someone to talk to
I don't really know where to post this but I really need someone to talk to right now. I'm currently 26 weeks pregnant and up until now it has been the worst experience of my life. A few weeks after I found out I was pregnant I had to have one of my dogs put to sleep due to cancer, then three weeks after that I was attacked along with my mum and fiance in my mums kitchen, my partner was stabbed twice and had to have treatment for a collapsed lung. Then I was harassed by the attackers mother. I fell in to depression but tried to carry on. Since then things were getting slightly better apart from the fact that through all this time I have had bad morning sickness and ended up in hospital due to severe dehydration. Now my partner seems to be angry all the time and flies off the handle easily, nothing makes him happy anymore. I feel like I can't deal with anything anymore and I don't know what to do! please help
5 Answers • 10 years ago
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Maybe you should see a therapist. Therapists are great for real life help. I also suggest you talking to your partner--he should be your biggest source of support right now and if he's only adding to your depression then he should know so that he's given the opportunity to fix it.
10 years ago
I remember u from a few months back. U just cant seem to catch a break, eh?! Is there somewhere u can go for a few days or even weeks so u can get some down time without all the stress from other people? I think u need to have a sit down with the partner. There may be a little more going on in his head that he isnt vocalizing. Everyone deals with their problems differently, I get quiet, my husband gets snappy...it does help to talk about it tho. U cant deal with an issue if u just bury it...u two need to talk. If that cant happen then u need to do whats best for u and baby and get urself out of that situation. I hope things get better for u, now is a time to enjoy pregnancy.
Best of luck!! =))
10 years ago
I can't cope anymore. we just had a huge argument and he's threatening to throw me out to my mums. I asked him to clean the flat and he called me an ungrateful bitch and started punching the walls and throwing stuff about. I don't know what to do, this isn't the guy I said 'yes' to. I feel like smashing my head against the wall right now.
10 years ago • Post starter
oh god that is just awful you poor thing.. maybe you should go stay with your mum for few days let things cool off and he might realise hes taken it out on you and make it up to you, while you can get some rest and try relax, this stress is not good for you or the baby.. remember you are blessed with this new coming arrival and although your in a bad patch now it wont last forever. i wish i could help more or just give you a hug to say everything will be ok :( if you need a chat just message me i hope your ok and good luck with the rest of your pregnancy :) xxx
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