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im so sorry!

So sorry sarah! How long have you been trying?

Dont be sorry girls. Just wanted to shout! Feels like one hundred billion years! Just fed up now. But I know if I stop trying I'll regret it forever. This is my favourite time of my cycle, where you hold your breath as the test develops but, alas, havent even got that this month. Why, why, why, why, why, why? How come kids are just plopping babies out left, right and centre? V frustrating! Im usually very chipper but this has knocked me again.

Sara! I am sorry...... I know how frustrating this is because I am still here with you!! No bfp for me yet either. I keep thinking that I am never going to have children either..... I waited for the right time in my life and I did everything the "right" way and now I am suffering for it..... It just sucks sometimes!

I feel you sara..We do all that stupid stuff,legs in air,go to toilet one hour afterwards even if our cyst is about to burst,BD inthe right timing, our husbands feel like machines(we too), we do the rain dance and nothing..and all the kids get pregnant by breath alone!Hang in there ok?

That happened to me last mth...Not only did AF arrive but 3 days early!!!! No hope at all!!! THEN this mth i was 3 days late....and im never late!!damn i was excited..but wat do ya know she finally showed up...Grrrrr!! So ive decided no more tracking o day..I know when it happens and im guna try to relax sum...i say that now but when it gets closer to time ill prolly be obsessing once again!! Best of luck to you!! We r guna get our BFPs ladies!!!

I completely understand where you are coming from. I have my 4yo daughter (thankfully) from a previous marriage, and she wants a baby sister soo badly. My fiance and I have been trying since Nov 2009. Every person that I know that was pregnant around the same time as me or after me either is pregnant with their 2nd or already has their 2nd, and its devastating. It breaks my heart, and my daughter is constantly talking to me about how much she wants a baby. My fiance and I are trying to stay optimistic, but its hard. I hear ya, girl, and wish you luck. It will happen when it's time, that's what I keep telling myself. Hope for good news for you soon.

my heart goes out to you girl! we've been ttc for 2 months and nothing. it gets so hard, i know. you are in my prayers. GOOD LUCK

EDIT: we've been trying for 2 years, not months!

Feeling much better today! Got my FS app on the 24th so we should find out whats wrong and hopefully he will start to do something about it. I was hoping that we'd be able to do it on our own but, hey-ho, no. Just makes me feels utterly useless. But onwards and upwards. Thanks girlies.